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Why should she put food in his house tho....hell they can stay at home and eat.....

So her kids can see their father.
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Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Why should she put food in his house tho....hell they can stay at home and eat.....

So her kids can see their father.

Thats his responsibility......thats like if he was homeless should she provide him with shelter as well? 
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Originally posted by **Sk!TtLeS B** **Sk!TtLeS B** wrote:


Households? So busstops just arent a thing where you're from? Not sarcasm, serious question. The only time I've ever seen kids dropped off at their houses (outside of movies and tv shows) is when the kid is disabled in some form. 

Anyway, If they go to school somewhere close to home then it'd take him less than a gallon of gas to go get them, and if they go to school father away, the busstop is usually centrally located within the community, so walking from his house to the busstop and back isnt inconceivable. 
And 3 days a week can very well be Friday, Saturday and Sunday. If they go to public school, the likelihood that there will be "field trips, book fairs" and opportunities to buy school activity related "shirts" on the weekend is incredibly low. 
As far as food goes, rice, beans and vegetables are just fine. If their mama was about something, she wouldnt send her kids anywhere without food to last them if she even had the slightest inkling that they might not be fed to her standards. At least some fruits and vegetables. 


Girl do not start telling poor people to walk or eat rice/beans/veggies or cut cable or spend more money on actual food and not juice and dessert.

Don't you know that's impossible? IMPOSSIBLE.
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Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by **Sk!TtLeS B** **Sk!TtLeS B** wrote:

Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Why should she put food in his house tho....hell they can stay at home and eat.....

So her kids can see their father.

Thats his responsibility......thats like if he was homeless should she provide him with shelter as well? 

If he was homeless because he fell on hard times, not because of drug use/mental illness, I dont see why she couldnt let him come over/meet him at a park or something to see the kids.
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Originally posted by **Sk!TtLeS B** **Sk!TtLeS B** wrote:

Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by **Sk!TtLeS B** **Sk!TtLeS B** wrote:

Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Why should she put food in his house tho....hell they can stay at home and eat.....

So her kids can see their father.

Thats his responsibility......thats like if he was homeless should she provide him with shelter as well? 

If he was homeless because he fell on hard times, not because of drug use/mental illness, I dont see why she couldnt let him come over/meet him at a park or something to see the kids.

Right but she doesnt have to provide for him....so if he cant feed them while they are with him.....he can come over or have an outing......
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But she isnt letting him see them, hence custody being brought up. 

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Originally posted by **Sk!TtLeS B** **Sk!TtLeS B** wrote:

But she isnt letting him see them, hence custody being brought up. 

Yeah I said I didnt agree with that....I just dont think hes authentic because it reads like the only reason he wants to increase visitation is to lower the support......men pull this mess all the time......and most of the time its not in the best interest of the child......was he trying to increase visitation before he lost his job? 
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Questions
How much was he paying in child support?
The only one with the job is the new wife? So how is it helping her to have the kids stay with him?
He only sees his kids twice a month?DeadSleepy
I need more details ....

Why did the first marriage end?

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The new wife is on disability.......
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Sooo the new wife SSI check taking care of everybody?...........And if the new wife is disable why would the kids come and stay with them while she get on her feet?...He gonna stay home with the kids with his new wife?... im confused by that logic.... I hate that he thinks seeing them more means paying less especially when u dont have them 50% of the time and its more so a convince factor financial. ...Why wasnt he wanting to see them more than 2 weekends a month.............. that bothered me more than anything else really.


The whole calling the cops jig makes me feel like theres a lot more to the story that maybe the OP doesnt even know... even if she is crazy he choose her at one point and time so it didnt happen over night.
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