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Smh head at all of the reachers, fake lawyers, fairy tail dreamers, and "I'm not paying any of your bills, but I'm gonna tell you what to do with your life anyways" that have showed up in this damn thread.

This sh*t is so ridiculous it's comical

OP. A lot of lawyers will give basic legal advice for free or cheap to let you know your options . But honestly, you can talk to a paralegal and they can give you off the record advice since they do a majority oft he lawyers work, anyways.

KrystalKlear is giving me ThisOne reaching tease.


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Originally posted by bunzaveli bunzaveli wrote:

Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

I don't believe in reduction.....those kids cost of living hasn't reduced so he needs to do what these single women do that don't have help do......make it work.....


like scale back ?


I believe in reduction .
Even if he was living with them and married if he lost his job the whole family would have to adjust and scale back.
That's how it works....adjust
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Originally posted by P31chick P31chick wrote:

I'm back.

First answer NO I am not the wife.  I am his sister..lol.  I have a job hence my absence.  My new sister in law (Who my brother met after the divorce) is disabled due to an unfortunate accident. 

His checks were garnished because my ex sister in laws lawyer added that into the court order and the judge approved it, so no checks are not garnished due to a history of non payment, it can be requested by the other party. (I had to ask him this one).

And he asked if the girls can spend more time with him, not necessarily all the time more like three days out of the week, every week...vs two weekends out of the year. She doesn't want to budge and she is making 40K.  He was making way more than her before his layoff.

Why they got the divorce is not the issue.


 I understand you love and desire to help your brother , but why are you in the middle of something so personal between a husband and wife ? I would imagine his current wife helping her husband unless she is disable to a point she can't take care of herself . I am not taking sides with the ex wife , but remember only 2 people where in the bed when the kids where made . 
 
You will never know everything your brother possibly put the woman through to cause her anger . I would help the man find a good lawyer and allow the wife to make decisons with her husband .  The current wife is disable due to a accident with a new baby right ? Can she help with her disabilty or settlement money? 
 
 
Your brother is a smart professional man from what you wrote . I advise you to stay out of it . The ex may be even more angry you are helping the new wife. I would help with paper work if the current wife ask you , but please allow the couple to handle the rest . I think your brother should work 3 jobs if possible until things get better for the sake of his children . GL  


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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:

Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

this guy had five kids between two marriages right?

anyhoo,

i think all these scathing comments are interesting

i wish we could post our financial data and see how quickly some of these opinions would change


how many millionaires do you think post on bhm?


i know of a couple

but they arent getting divorced anytime soon

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Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:



if your money isn't making money, well you are poor

so yeah most people should never have kids I guess Confused


Exactly.

People should not be having kids that they can't feed, clothe, house, and provide medical care for. If you can't do any of those things for yourself then that's sign number one a person shouldn't be a parent.

This is not difficult to understand, but people would rather birth children and have them starve than stop being selfish and evil.


its neglect and i bet everybody knows at least 1 family like this.


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If I can take care of everything without a job.....then wtf I got a job for?
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Broke without kids....

*Now who gone check me, boo*



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Originally posted by fckwitmeuknoigotit fckwitmeuknoigotit wrote:

Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:



if your money isn't making money, well you are poor

so yeah most people should never have kids I guess Confused


Exactly.

People should not be having kids that they can't feed, clothe, house, and provide medical care for. If you can't do any of those things for yourself then that's sign number one a person shouldn't be a parent.

This is not difficult to understand, but people would rather birth children and have them starve than stop being selfish and evil.


its neglect and i bet everybody knows at least 1 family like this.


With the millions of kids receiving free breakfast and lunch at school, folks probably know whole communities of families like this. And some of them are posting on BHM.
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Originally posted by kfoxx1998 kfoxx1998 wrote:

The mother hates him more than she loves her children.  How does it benefit her children to have their father put in jail, get a record and never be able to get a good job again to help her support them.   People working against their own best interest make me itch. 
Don't be coming in here making senseErmm
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Call a couple of law firms to ask for advice. I've called a bunch of law firms for a family member and the amount of free advice they gave me OVER THE PHONE was shocking.  One call even lasted an hour.


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