| Naturalchick30 wrote:|
| afrokock wrote:|
| Krystal Klear wrote:|
He needs to be snipped. I can't stand males like him that keeps populating with no regard to his or anyone elses pockets. The procedure is quick and cheap. Cheaper than paying for FIVE kids
I don't think you 2 or anybody else who's against me understand. The op presented a problem. She needed a resolution on how he can improve or help his situation. Up until my post, there were only 2 helpful tips. Mine & SangFroid's. Everyone else was just just talking loud but saying nothing. Yes, he should record phone calls and still make payments. That will help him out TODAY
. Yes he should get a vasectomy, that will help him in the FUTURE
. Seems like you all are the ones that can't comprehend that.
I dont care how small the payments are, if he is paying SOMETHING, he wont look like a deadbeat in the court's eyes. If she's avoiding the papers of being served, he can serve her at her job, at her home, certified mail, something, but she can't hide forever. He shoul also DOCUMENT every single attempt and present that to the courts. To the ones saying have the wife pay until he gets on his feet, well until the op comes back and answers my question of "does she work and how much does she bring in?" We don't know if she is even ABLE to help. If she was, I'm sure it wouldn't have gone so far as jail threats. Jail ONLY comes into play after you've missed several payments, not one or 2.
I dont see the courts taking 2 girls away from their mom, who they've been with all their lives, to a man that sees them twice a month, no job, and a house full of family that he's already struggling to take care of. He just wants to take them so he won't have to pay. Otherwise, he would've had tried for custody a loooong time ago. Instead he was chasing his new wife, not worried about the girls.
I think this new wife is possibly the reason why the marriage broke up. She saw a successful black man living the american dream with a good job, nice family and comfortable living. Then she said I want that. Weasled her way in, had some babies to keep the checks coming, now the unforseeable has happened with the layoff and they dont know what to do. I dont think the wife was working if she has twins and a newborn. If the twins are young, I'd take a guess that she's a sahm. Money for daycare or nannies for little ones is A LOT. I dont think they are in a position to pay for care. Just my guess until OP comes in to clarify.
Is that too bold?