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Originally posted by Omni Harmony Omni Harmony wrote:

Originally posted by GG GG wrote:

But really who "needs" kids? Don't people have them because they want to?
well if he WANTS to continue to struggle and have a sh*tty life, by all means have 20 children if it makes them happy.

*shrugs*

Idk if it's definitely going to be sh*tty for people who have a bunch of kids
It's all about their perception of their lives

Speaking of which
How do the Dug*gars work that out?!?

Edited by GG - Oct 15 2013 at 8:30am
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How old are the girls? Maybe the girls do not want to stay in a house with the father's current wife and their 3 kids. Maybe he can call the companies for gas, electric, water, mortgage/rent, insurance, cable/internet etc and let them know his situation and see if they can also stop recurring just like he did with his child support....oh wait..... funny how bills work. The exwife is being difficult so find a way to pay the cs. If you "the current wife" is employed then help him at least get a lawyer to get a modification granted instead of deferring payment.
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just make it work.


Edited by keepgrowing - Oct 15 2013 at 8:42am
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yea i'm in agreeance of him retaining a good attorney because she is violating the court order by keeping the girls away from him.

as far as the child support, its automatically taken out of his check, right? so as long as he can prove he is actively seeking employment, the courts won't throw him in jail.
 
i hope everything works out for him and his children tbh. those girls need their father in their lives and for the mother to act like this is very concerning.
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1. Can the current wife help with support payments ?
 
2. The court may garnish his unemployment check. '
 
3. Why would it be cheaper for the kids to live with him and the new wife ?
 
4. The man should take a Job outside of his field until things get better .
 
5. Krystal clear should share her other unsernames before she was banned or only post under one if you are going to be so bold . JMO 


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Originally posted by P31chick P31chick wrote:

I have a family member that is ordered to pay Child Support for his two daughters.  Since day one of his order he has ensured to keep a job so that he can supply insurance for them as well as have his salary garnished. He got layed off from work... 

Originally posted by Krystal Klear Krystal Klear wrote:

...As for danni, the reason to get a vasectomy is because he can't handle the ones he has, let alone any more. Why does he NEED more, not want more, BUT NEED MORE? Nobody needs 6+ kids. He is only making his situation worse by creating babies he can't take care of...

 
So a someone who was taking care of their family but got LAID OFF, not quit, not fired but laid off, is irresponsible and can't handle taking care of their family? You do realize nothing is guaranteed in life and many people fall on hard times at some point.
 


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Originally posted by india100 india100 wrote:


3. Why would it be cheaper for the kids to live with him and the new wife ?
 

Was just going to ask this!

Originally posted by P31chick P31chick wrote:

He suggested to have his daughters come and stay with him so that he can make things easier for her until he can find a job and get caught up with support but she refuses to have her daughters stay with him outside of their court order.  She now has sent him threats that since he has not paid any child support that she is going to have him arrested. 

I'm confused with this as well, how much money was he making and giving in child support? Is child support a large portion of her income or is she fully dependent on it?? 
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Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:


5 kids?



Gurl come sit next to me......


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This job market is hard AF - at least he made the right choice by letting the courts know his situation - and someone stated that just like bills they have to be paid, I've gotten large bills that couldn't be paid in full at that moment and I called and had it adjusted to pay in increments so the same can be said for child support. 
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Originally posted by keepgrowing keepgrowing wrote:

How old are the girls? Maybe the girls do not want to stay in a house with the father's current wife and their 3 kids. Maybe he can call the companies for gas, electric, water, mortgage/rent, insurance, cable/internet etc and let them know his situation and see if they can also stop recurring just like he did with his child support....oh wait..... funny how bills work. The exwife is being difficult so find a way to pay the cs. If you "the current wife" is employed then help him at least get a lawyer to get a modification granted instead of deferring payment.

lol was sooo thinking this LOL

Anyway I digress... 
It's smarter for the ex-wife to just go ahead and let him defer the payments because if he's suppose to pay her $1000 each month as soon as he gets back on his feet he'll be responsible of every month he missed and stiillll owe her $1000 every month going forward. But if he gets it modified, it will go off of what he can afford now whether it be $100 or $10 and he won't have to back pay nada... And trust me $10 child support is possible. My friend's ex owes her $23 a month because he's unemployed. $23!! What the hell can you do with that???
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