i find it strange that i take the same stance - drop her. That is not a friend.
But living in a predominantly white town
? apparently, lying is totally acceptable
These caucasians are cowardly, certainly don't have your back, yet it is constantly said, "You never know if they might be helpful sometime in the future".. they get upset or find it actually "down right rude" when you "cut people off" for dishonest behavior. For them, lying is "not that big of a deal"...
I just don't buy that.. The culture in general comes across as superficial, back stabbing, envious, and habitual liars. My SO asked why i don't even bother socializing in this area? My response is "it is no longer worth my time".. i tried, but we can't even relate. They find it "intriguing" and are actually "drawn" to those who have integrity/strength? but in the end just don't have the intestinal fortitude to pull it off. They are more afraid of not being popular or "losing a friend" if they do.. thus, they stay in constant drama at home and at work.
We used to say in the streets: "A liar will get you killed".. i've seen it, and always believed that.
Anyone regardless of their race, in my opinion who has no honor/integrity is about as worthless as a tampon in a man's prison, anyway.
Edited by femmemuscleisback - Feb 02 2014 at 8:16pm