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1- Farra ain't sh¡t
Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


stop being their friend

how can you trust them?
2- This. I wouldn't know how to deal with lying friends because my friends don't lie. They find it as banal and sad as I do. They woulda been cut from the crew by the 1st or 2nd time.
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Sorry sweetie but she is NOT YOUR FRIEND.  As an old lady I can say...when I was young I used to "THINK" all these people were my friends and lived to be proven wrong.  This person is not a friend, she is an acquaintance at best.  Friends don't lie about everything to each other.
 
If she can't even tell you the truth about BASIC things...please don't expect her to have your back in your time of needs. 
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You can't even trust the chick.

There's only one tried and true unfailing solution to dealing with untrustworthy people!


Kick them out of your life and keep them out.
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i find it strange that i take the same stance - drop her.  That is not a friend.Ouch

But living in a predominantly white town?   apparently, lying is totally acceptableConfused

These caucasians are cowardly, certainly don't have your back, yet it is constantly said, "You never know if they might be helpful sometime in the future".. they get upset or find it actually "down right rude" when you "cut people off" for dishonest behavior.  For them, lying is "not that big of a deal"...Ouch

I just don't buy that.. The culture in general comes across as superficial, back stabbing, envious, and habitual liars.  My SO asked why i don't even bother socializing in this area?  My response is "it is no longer worth my time".. i tried, but we can't even relate.  They find it "intriguing" and are actually "drawn" to those who have integrity/strength? but in the end just don't have the intestinal fortitude to pull it off.  They are more afraid of not being popular or "losing a friend" if they do.. thus, they stay in constant drama at home and at work.

We used to say in the streets: "A liar will get you killed".. i've seen it, and always believed that.

Anyone regardless of their race, in my opinion who has no honor/integrity is about as worthless as a tampon in a man's prison, anyway.






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and the strange part?  They don't really like each other, don't trust each other, but you would never know it if you saw them over at each others houses having dinner, restaurants or hanging out at the bars.

(But these very same people are armed to the teeth when it comes to their guns/rifles.)

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I wouldn't with her. She is not trustworthy. People like that are the type to set you up and then act like they dont know what happened. We could be mild associates at best but not someone I'd tell my private sh*t to and have close to me
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Liars are the worst. Period.
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Originally posted by FarraFace FarraFace wrote:

Originally posted by cocochanel1 cocochanel1 wrote:

How do yo deal with them? The lies aren't really affecting my life, but still.  There was one thing she lied about that made me go hmmm.  She fronts like she's not cool with a "foe"  yet she's cooler with them than she lets off.  She also hides numerous basic things about her life that people don't hide, yet  and asks me very invasive none of anybody's business type questions.  I feel like wanting to know all about me yet hiding every detail about her life is a form of her trying to one up me.  I remember when I first became friends with her, she told me that she doesn't have "luck" with female friends and that there was a friend of hers that just stop speaking to her cold turkey.  Hmmm. I really can't with some of these so called female friends.  This chick is really starting to rub me the wrong way. Angry  Thoughts?  I'm contemplating cutting her off. 

Does her name start with a B?
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This person will become more irritating as time goes on.  I had a friend soooooort of like this when I was younger...totally unaware that she was annoying, hurtful and irrational. I haven't talking to this person in 5 years.  They will spend everything like it's the other persons fault which sounds like this person.  She got cut off for a reason...she may need a repeat with you OP.
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That's an oxymoron

Someone who constantly lies to me, wouldn't be considered a 'friend.'


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