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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote keelolo1 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Dec 26 2012 at 6:50pm
Nope. Not at all
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Originally posted by YoursTruly YoursTruly wrote:

Heck naw...my dog has rights in the home just as well. You're welcome to stay, but my dog will not be locked up to accommodate you. If you don't like it then there are plenty of hotels to choose from...so find one and have several seats! Wink
I think I'm going to have to go with this.


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It's one thing if you're coming over for an afternoon to visit and You tell me you are allergic to dogs. I can deal with that. I can put the dog in a backyard or in a room, or something to accommodate you. However, if you plan to stay over for an extended period, you're going to have to find somewhere else. I can make only so many changes to my own life to make you comfortable. 
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No. Locking up the dog won't fix allergies for one as pet dander is likely in the furniture and around the home. Plus leaving a dog locked up for a couple hours is ok but several days is abuse. I will not do that to my dog.

Like others said it's extremely rude to invite yourself and make special requests for accommodation.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote jonesable Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Dec 26 2012 at 8:57pm
I don't think its a result of a weak mind though.
But its kinda been branded onto me to be a welcoming host and its almost considered a compliment that someone would choose your home to stay in instead of a hotel so you try to go to the max so that person will enjoy their stay
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If I like them enough to let them stay then I would put my animal up for them f they had a legit allergy. But then again that's moot point because putting the animal away wouldn't help anything because its dander/whatever would still be all around the house.
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if it's a cat then kick it out.
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I'd have to clean the house from top to bottom, wash all my clothing, keep the cat outside and hope it doesn't run off for just a few days stay?

Naw son. I'm willing to dust, vacuum and make sure your guest room is clean but that's it. I might even buy you some Benedryl or Zyrtec because I like you. LOL
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A lesson must be learnt for over accomodating random people that you are friendly with because if the roles were reversed you may find your self ass out.  I do subscribe to "do unto others as you would want done unto you" If I offer to put/keep the dog in the other room to make your stay as comfortable as possible is one thing but for you as an outsider to suggest I DO THAT is plain rude.  If I don't offer to do that because it would be my perogative since it is MY House...then you know Fido/Kitty will roam as freely as they desire.

 
For the life of me I can't understand how people can be forward to you but you can't be forward back....Why would I put Fido a way...Fido is at home...now the Holiday Inn is only....
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Originally posted by foxyroy19 foxyroy19 wrote:

A lesson must be learnt for over accomodating random people that you are friendly with because if the roles were reversed you may find your self ass out. 


   
I agree with this too. You don't randomly ask someone to let you stay. Youl should already have some sort or history or relationship. If not they should go to their real friends.
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