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Originally posted by TokyoRose TokyoRose wrote:


Originally posted by Alias_Avi Alias_Avi wrote:


See this is the thing that pisses me off

White people expect Black people to JUMP when they tell us to. They FORCE us to be a community together (Blacks/mixed Blacks) for literally hundreds of years and NOW that they see a benefit from splitting us apart or recognizing very mixed people as is (let's face it, they don't really care about  recognizing truly mixed people as "mixed" cuz then most of us would be categorized as such too), they try to separate us and make US look like the f*cked up ones cuz we don't want change!

That's some ol' bull!
One drop rule is a twisted theology that Whites started and Black people are too mixed up to change sh*t now

That's how I feel about it.

Originally posted by TokyoRose TokyoRose wrote:

To get personal, here, in my family, nearly every single generation has had at least one mixed person in it up until my grandparents.  All of them were treated as black.  This has gone on for hundreds of years.  If this woman truly wants her children to be acknowledged as both, society is going to have to change and trying to change an established practice that has been in existence for a good few hundreds of years isn't going to be easy.



That's what pisses me right off, too.  As early as 50 years ago, they wanted nothing to do with my biracial ancestors.  Now that that they are willingly making and acknowledging their half-black kids, NOW they want a special category for them to slip into. FOH.




as Ben Justice said the term biracial is disingenuous to history and those who don't see it to me are part of thiscolor blind coalition which is just another name for white guilt and an easy way to put a bandaid on the idea of white privilege.
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@ alias are you mixed? if this is something you don't wanna share I understand. 
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Originally posted by f8dagrate f8dagrate wrote:

@ alias are you mixed? if this is something you don't wanna share I understand. 

lmao. 
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Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Originally posted by SoutherNtellect SoutherNtellect wrote:

summary?


A white woman had kids with a blk guy. Blk guys a absent father his family has nothing to do with them. They wont let her identify the kids as being biracial only black. Shes upset about that  more so since shes the one who is raising the children.

i didn't get that he was absent, I thought she said her kids don't have a relationship with his family. b/c he didn't.. 

Regardless the one drop rule is still on the books..it applies mainly b/c regardless to how much white blood you have in you, in most cases when folks look at you, they won't consider you white..  
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She should have thought about it b4 she had blk kids period.
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Originally posted by CuteNSweet CuteNSweet wrote:

She should have thought about it b4 she had blk kids period.

.... but she didn't. she had mixed kids. LOL
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@ flow what's so funny ConfusedCryLOLLOLStern Smile
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Lmao!

Originally posted by f8dagrate f8dagrate wrote:

@ alias are you mixed? if this is something you don't wanna share I understand. 
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She never said that their father wasn't in their lives.  She said their father's family is not in their lives.  I feel for her.  Just because they have a black father, doesn't mean she shouldn't be legally  acknowledged as their mother.  If you contribute to something, you want to get credit for it.  

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i wonder if there are things blacks put work into and never got the credit for?

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm..

let me think about that. lol

i love black ppl... but they really go above and beyond in adapting to help others feel good about themselves.
They are too accommodating.


when her kids are driving down the street--in however many years.. they are driving around in a nice car... but look like their daddy... and some asshole cop decides to bother them.

that cop isn't thinking... let me leave that kid alone. He's mixed. He will be seen as a black man.
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