my bf just broke up w/ me b/c...

I would have gave him a shoe box making him think he was getting some shoes and when he opened it would have been full of rocks with a paper that reads "Kick rocks...its over"

Originally posted by JasonWllms55 i have a weird feeling, that this thread is an example of a double standard. Let a man start a thread, saying his girl broke up with him cause he refused to buy her some BCBG heels, and watch all the girls come in and call him cheap, broke or a lame.

Originally posted by JasonWllms55 i have a weird feeling, that this thread is an example of a double standard. Let a man start a thread, saying his girl broke up with him cause he refused to buy her some BCBG heels, and watch all the girls come in and call him cheap, broke or a lame.

Originally posted by jaszymeen Originally posted by aurora3140 Originally posted by JasonWllms55 i have a weird feeling, that this thread is an example of a double standard. Let a man start a thread, saying his girl broke up with him cause he refused to buy her some BCBG heels, and watch SOME of the girls come in and call him cheap, broke or a lame.   I would look at a man sideways if he asked me to buy him something like in the OP's case.  I would expect him to do the same if I mustered the audacity to ASK for a gift.   especially something that expensive

hmm. so was it the fact that he asked for it, or the fact that it was so expensive? and ladies maybe my response was a bit too general, but yall do have a way of suggesting or hinting towards what you may like. I had a girl tell me as Valentine's Day was coming up that she wanted Godiva Chocolates and not some cheap pharmacy brand. I  laughed it off, because for one we had only been dating a few weeks and I found it weird that she would be placing demands on me. Anyway, i confided in a female friend about the situation, and she told me not to buy her a damn thing. And sure enough, i didnt buy her sh*t, and that was the beginning of the end. lol. Next thing you know, i hear this girl is bad mouthing me around school cause i didnt get her anything. Oh well! I was the same dude that paid for her dinner on MY birthday. but props to the women on here that can provide for themselves.

Originally posted by Rhonnie it's the fact that homeboy bought $300 worth of stuff a couple days before and then had the nerve to ask her for some jordans. gave her some bullsh*t ass excuse as why he needed them. then got all butt hurt and broke up with her cuz she didn't fall for it.

he lauce 

what in the 1987 hell?

If your boyfriend isn't resourseful enough to BUY HIMSELF some Jordans, then you need to let his #ss go and fast!!!! He's  nothing more than a depenent PIMP,who expects for someone else to do for him!  There is nothing wrong with wanting to do something nice for someone,  but  when they expect for you to do it, and act out like a child when you don't,then that's when it's time to let that @ucker loose! Once you start giving into those childish ultimatums,  he will play you ever second he gets! Tell that looser to get a job! You are not his mommy!

Edited by marie67 - 27 Dec 2009 at 1:00pm