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    Posted: 03 Nov 2009 at 3:18pm
Right here!


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What are the myths?? I will dispel what I can. 
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Originally posted by Merin

What are the myths?? I will dispel what I can. 



I think she means any myths or misconceptions you've heard from others about your IR relationshipSmile. Anything outlandish
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Is it true that once you go black, you never go back? LOL
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One myth is that y'all don't exist because no one finds BW attractive (sarcasm) Ermm

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Just because i am dating a wm doesnt mean i hate myself or blacks, thats the biggest misconception ever.


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My mom thinks my husband is going to be denied promotions because his wife is black. My H just got promoted by his new boss a fellow Howard Alum. Did that ever shut my Momma up. 
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Originally posted by kalenjin

Just because i am dating a wm doesnt mean i hate myself or blacks, thats the biggest misconception ever.


this. just this.
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Kalen- That's a good one. Before I started dating my husband I swore off light-skinned men. See how Karma gets you? 
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please...stop.
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dont have a white significant other currently but one thing that always pissed me off was ppl thinking white men kiss your ass and will put up with more including a funky attitude that BM wont...truth is not much is diff you have some that are good and some that are bad just as with anyother race.

 
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Originally posted by onechase

Is it true that once you go black, you never go back? LOL
 
LOLi wanna know who made that up bcs its so far from the truth.
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Originally posted by Merin

My mom thinks my husband is going to be denied promotions because his wife is black. My H just got promoted by his new boss a fellow Howard Alum. Did that ever shut my Momma up. 
 
I'm sure it did LOL
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Originally posted by slayfresh

please...stop.


i agree slay

and the search function still works innit slay?
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Originally posted by afrokock

Originally posted by slayfresh

please...stop.


i agree slay

and the search function still works innit slay?
 
 
If you don't like this post. STAY OUT OF IT! AngryAngryAngry GEESH! No one is forcing you to read it!AngryAngry
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Originally posted by Choco

Originally posted by afrokock

Originally posted by slayfresh

please...stop.


i agree slay

and the search function still works innit slay?
 
 
If you don't like this post. STAY OUT OF IT! AngryAngryAngry GEESH! No one is forcing you to read it!AngryAngry


and IM the only one who objected? (if you can call it that)

ok...... carry on



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do you get a lot of stares when you go out together in public?


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My husband is white.  But a fine looking black man still turns my head.

Not all of us have issues with black men, I still find them attractive, especially if they are well muscled with hard arms and dark skin. Embarrassed Yes, I said dark skin. Evil%20Smile
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Yep, we get stares in certain parts of town, therefore we stay out of those parts of town. 
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is it a fetish?
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Originally posted by solena

dont have a white significant other currently but one thing that always pissed me off was ppl thinking white men kiss your ass and will put up with more including a funky attitude that BM wont...truth is not much is diff you have some that are good and some that are bad just as with anyother race.


 
Yeah my bf has no problem telling me when I need to calm dowm.
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Originally posted by Merin

Yep, we get stares in certain parts of town, therefore we stay out of those parts of town. 


+ Rath

I asked my bf if I would ever be able to come down to norfolk, va with him and he said it was a bad idea if we went out any where he'd most likely end up in a fight.

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just saying this whole dispel rumors trend is tired and played the hell out and an open thread warrants any and every type of response. 
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Originally posted by slayfresh

just saying this whole dispel rumors trend is tired and played the hell out and an open thread warrants any and every type of response. 


The Dispel the Myth Threads have opened my eyes:

The have sidewalks in the the south but only in the city

Gay's do not like being a token homosexual in a group

The weather really is crappy in England..

Very informative they have been
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Originally posted by rathofhellgirl

Originally posted by solena

dont have a white significant other currently but one thing that always pissed me off was ppl thinking white men kiss your ass and will put up with more including a funky attitude that BM wont...truth is not much is diff you have some that are good and some that are bad just as with anyother race.


 
Yeah my bf has no problem telling me when I need to calm dowm.
 
every caucasian ive dated has always shut me up before giving in or walking away and accepting the situation. and they would withhold sex cuddling affection and all other communication until i agreed to talk it out apologize or fix whatever i did wrong. 
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