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Choco
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Topic: BW/WM Interracial Relationships Dispel the myths Posted: 03 Nov 2009 at 3:18pm |
Right here!
Edited by Choco - 03 Nov 2009 at 3:19pm
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Merin
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Posted: 03 Nov 2009 at 3:20pm |
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What are the myths?? I will dispel what I can.
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dynamite23
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Posted: 03 Nov 2009 at 3:21pm |
Originally posted by Merin
What are the myths?? I will dispel what I can.
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I think she means any myths or misconceptions you've heard from others about your IR relationship  . Anything outlandish
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Posted: 03 Nov 2009 at 3:22pm |
Is it true that once you go black, you never go back?
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LiberianQueen83
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Posted: 03 Nov 2009 at 3:22pm |
One myth is that y'all don't exist because no one finds BW attractive (sarcasm)
Edited by LiberianQueen83 - 03 Nov 2009 at 3:23pm
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kalenjin
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Posted: 03 Nov 2009 at 3:22pm |
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Just because i am dating a wm doesnt mean i hate myself or blacks, thats the biggest misconception ever.
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Merin
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Posted: 03 Nov 2009 at 3:23pm |
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My mom thinks my husband is going to be denied promotions because his wife is black. My H just got promoted by his new boss a fellow Howard Alum. Did that ever shut my Momma up.
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SinDerElla
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Posted: 03 Nov 2009 at 3:24pm |
Originally posted by kalenjin
Just because i am dating a wm doesnt mean i hate myself or blacks, thats the biggest misconception ever.
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this. just this.
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Merin
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Posted: 03 Nov 2009 at 3:24pm |
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Kalen- That's a good one. Before I started dating my husband I swore off light-skinned men. See how Karma gets you?
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Posted: 03 Nov 2009 at 3:25pm |
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please...stop.
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solena
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Posted: 03 Nov 2009 at 3:25pm |
dont have a white significant other currently but one thing that always pissed me off was ppl thinking white men kiss your ass and will put up with more including a funky attitude that BM wont...truth is not much is diff you have some that are good and some that are bad just as with anyother race.
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solena
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Posted: 03 Nov 2009 at 3:27pm |
Originally posted by onechase
Is it true that once you go black, you never go back?  |
 i wanna know who made that up bcs its so far from the truth.
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LiberianQueen83
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Posted: 03 Nov 2009 at 3:27pm |
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My mom thinks my husband is going to be denied promotions because his wife is black. My H just got promoted by his new boss a fellow Howard Alum. Did that ever shut my Momma up. |
I'm sure it did 
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Posted: 03 Nov 2009 at 3:28pm |
Originally posted by slayfresh
please...stop.
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i agree slay and the search function still works innit slay?
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Choco
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Posted: 03 Nov 2009 at 3:31pm |
Originally posted by afrokock
Originally posted by slayfresh
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i agree slay
and the search function still works innit slay?
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If you don't like this post. STAY OUT OF IT!   GEESH! No one is forcing you to read it! 
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Posted: 03 Nov 2009 at 3:35pm |
Originally posted by Choco
Originally posted by afrokock
Originally posted by slayfresh
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i agree slay
and the search function still works innit slay?
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If you don't like this post. STAY OUT OF IT!   GEESH! No one is forcing you to read it!  |
and IM the only one who objected? (if you can call it that) ok...... carry on
Edited by afrokock - 03 Nov 2009 at 3:36pm
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Posted: 03 Nov 2009 at 3:36pm |
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do you get a lot of stares when you go out together in public?
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Posted: 03 Nov 2009 at 3:38pm |
My husband is white. But a fine looking black man still turns my head. Not all of us have issues with black men, I still find them attractive, especially if they are well muscled with hard arms and dark skin.  Yes, I said dark skin.
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Posted: 03 Nov 2009 at 3:39pm |
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Yep, we get stares in certain parts of town, therefore we stay out of those parts of town.
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Posted: 03 Nov 2009 at 3:42pm |
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is it a fetish?
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Posted: 03 Nov 2009 at 3:43pm |
Originally posted by solena
dont have a white significant other currently but one thing that always pissed me off was ppl thinking white men kiss your ass and will put up with more including a funky attitude that BM wont...truth is not much is diff you have some that are good and some that are bad just as with anyother race.
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Yeah my bf has no problem telling me when I need to calm dowm.
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Posted: 03 Nov 2009 at 3:45pm |
Originally posted by Merin
Yep, we get stares in certain parts of town, therefore we stay out of those parts of town.
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+ Rath
I asked my bf if I would ever be able to come down to norfolk, va with him and he said it was a bad idea if we went out any where he'd most likely end up in a fight.
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Posted: 03 Nov 2009 at 3:46pm |
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just saying this whole dispel rumors trend is tired and played the hell out and an open thread warrants any and every type of response.
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Posted: 03 Nov 2009 at 3:49pm |
Originally posted by slayfresh
just saying this whole dispel rumors trend is tired and played the hell out and an open thread warrants any and every type of response.
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The Dispel the Myth Threads have opened my eyes:
The have sidewalks in the the south but only in the city
Gay's do not like being a token homosexual in a group
The weather really is crappy in England..
Very informative they have been
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Posted: 03 Nov 2009 at 3:51pm |
Originally posted by rathofhellgirl
Originally posted by solena
dont have a white significant other currently but one thing that always pissed me off was ppl thinking white men kiss your ass and will put up with more including a funky attitude that BM wont...truth is not much is diff you have some that are good and some that are bad just as with anyother race.
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every caucasian ive dated has always shut me up before giving in or walking away and accepting the situation. and they would withhold sex cuddling affection and all other communication until i agreed to talk it out apologize or fix whatever i did wrong.
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