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Posted: 02 Nov 2009 at 6:51am |
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Thanks, Sweetyangel. I know she wanted me to respond and I'm glad i didn't. I will continue to pray for her soul.
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Posted: 02 Nov 2009 at 7:30am |
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Hon leave her in God's hand ,and whatever or who ever it is DON'T give them your PW,b/c they could use it against you ,which this lady did .Let this be a lesson to you, b/c she could have dug deeper and did a hell of alot more.................
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Posted: 02 Nov 2009 at 7:34am |
WHOA this is some crazy stuff
and as small as Delaware is ... I live here, thank God I ain't never befriended her |
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Posted: 02 Nov 2009 at 7:36am |
^^ Lucky 4 U 
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Posted: 02 Nov 2009 at 7:38am |
Originally posted by mujerc
Hon leave her in God's hand ,and whatever or who ever it is DON'T give them your PW,b/c they could use it against you ,which this lady did .Let this be a lesson to you, b/c she could have dug deeper and did a hell of alot more................. |
Thanks.......I have learned one  of a valuable lesson
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Posted: 02 Nov 2009 at 9:55am |
She might just need ha A$$ whooped, that will shut her crazy butt down. 
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Posted: 02 Nov 2009 at 7:06pm |
Originally posted by mscute172
Originally posted by Mianna
OP, you are 50% to blame for this situation. You gave her your password- you should never share your password. That was very irresponsible to give her your password and then not change it afterward. Also, what is the issue with you and your close friend that you would not realize that she was not talking to you? Also, there is more to this story. I know from experience what it is like to be hated for no reason but something triggered her lashing out on you. Also, there is no need to get violent with her. I don't care that you posted her picture because that's on you. However, it would be beneficial for you to realize that you will not benefit by "hurting" her. I just hope you don't allow this to make you bitter or bring drama into your life.
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You are correct. I should have never given her my password to begin with but it just never crossed my mind that she would ever stoop to that level or even want to read my personal emails. As for my friend....since she is a brand new mom with her first child less than a month old, I really just thought she was preoccupied with getting to know her baby. I noticed that we spoke less often but really didnt pay any attention to it until we had out conversation. I wish there was more to this story, I'm still trying to find out. There was no trigger she told my friend she has always hated me amd forced herself to be my friend.  . Also, I was tit for tat on posting her pic and it was a little childish which is the reason I removed it. From this point on....I am just gonna let go and let god....
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I am glad that you are letting go......you don't want this to eat you up. I have had women hate me for no reason. It is very sad. I just mean that something had to trigger this reaction, instead of her continuing to be your friend, she just decided to break up your friendship. AM is right, don't spend your energy thinking about this or trying to get revenge because it will not satisfy your desires or make you feel happy. Also, be careful, this girl could be dangerous. There are alot of unstable people in the world but you can't let them make you do crazy things. Forgive her, never give out your passwords, continue to live your life to the fullest, be thankful for the things you have, and continue to have joy in your heart. 
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Posted: 02 Nov 2009 at 8:23pm |
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honestly I think she is psycho, and maybe even jealous of the frienship you have with the other girl. I don't wanna know what it's like to date her either..lol...
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Posted: 02 Nov 2009 at 8:38pm |
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Yes, life is too short to go around and be vengeful. "Vengence is mine, sayeth the Lord". We just have to learn how not to let small (or even big for that matter) offenses fester and cause us to lose track of our walk in this life. There is an excellent book called: "The Bait of Satan" that speaks of this very thing-being offended and how to not let it get to you. On a daily basis just about all of us can choose to be offended about something or not. Forgive and keep moving forward Sista!
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Posted: 02 Nov 2009 at 8:38pm |
Sorry about the multiple posts!
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Posted: 02 Nov 2009 at 8:38pm |
Sorry about the multiple posts
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Posted: 03 Nov 2009 at 12:01am |
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Thanks ladies. She is "GONE AND FORGOTTEN" !!!!! Im just glad we're not neighbors and she lives in a whole other state. That way....we will never even have to bump into each other.
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Posted: 03 Nov 2009 at 12:42am |
Originally posted by mscute172
Epitome....Thats WTF I wanna know. She told Mary that she has hated me for 3 years (as long as we've known each other) and forced herself to be my friend. What kind of CRAZY PSYCHO ish is that? Now, I dont know about anyone else but to me...there is no such thing as "FORCING" yourself to be someones friend. Im a simple kinda chick. Either I f*** witchu or I dont. There's no inbetween. Besides I can count on one hand my true friends and all of them Ive known most of my life. That's my fault for befriending random ass hating hos.
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that's scary. u will be surprised, mean hateful people like her will be all up under u just to hurt u. who know why? when I discover girls like this I quietly pull away.... listen more closely to people. Maya angelou: when people show u who they r the first time, believe them.!!!!!!  they will show u again! this is so true! Im sure this whacky chick said or did something u over looked again & again. over the 3 yrs. U accepted it as "Oh that's just Jessica," etc. huh huh! that's the time to quietly prepare to move on sometimes they look at u a certain way.  they seldom like anything u wear.u r hair, nails, wt, etc. they pick u apart w/o u knowing it. they say I'm just telling u the truth! BS  they wanna hurt u. run!! there was a lot of signs u missed..... but it's okay. u r fee of that demon! dont let this girl make u jaded. look, listen closely to people..... all will be revealed... she will get hers!! she will meet someone crazy as she is. watch.  now she has to pay for what she did to u.... . she's a true hater.(friendemy) disguised as a friend. the worst type. Business:
I know some people, that know some people.....
I can make a phone call!!! ! or let some folks here put the word on her! or u can always get the root lady to put a root on her!!! ya know I had to go silly... right!? Im gonna hear about the root comment....... bring it on!!! I said it.... yes I did!!! 
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Posted: 03 Nov 2009 at 1:10am |
^^^Kaai.....I had forgot all about that root lady. That was funny as hell!!!! ADEEEE DOWEEEE DEMBALLLAAAA!!!!!
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Posted: 03 Nov 2009 at 3:23am |
The is out of my life.......THE END!!!!!!!!!!
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Posted: 03 Nov 2009 at 4:14pm |
 u r lucky.
u still got your sister so to hell w that demon!!!
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Posted: 03 Nov 2009 at 10:32pm |
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People like that, are better left alone. They feed off of drama and nonsense. Life is too big to be bothered with small stuff. Move on. If/when she crosses your path again, whether via email/or personal, just pray for her and move on.
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Ooh. I feel scared for you. I have been there with somebody hating me behind my back but is so close to me everybody asked if we were gay. I just thought she was needy. She was damn batty! I stopped being her friend several times and she just kept coming back in a few months pretending to be different. She tried to set her grandparents house on fire and robbed somebody(8 years after the fact) because they wouldn't let her live with them. She also attacked him later and tried to throw him down the stairs and she climbed on the roof of a tall building to try to gain access to a guys terrace to kill his cat because he wanted her to go home She attacked/arrested the guy I was dating several times for staying with me when I stopped being her friend because she introduced us. She is looney for real and I finally got away from her. She harassed me for a lil while but I changed my number and moved. I was fine until this year in March when she called me screaming and calling me an opportunistic whore. Who can trick themselves into being mad at the victim 3 years later? She is crazy and I was scared. I told everybody about her and to watch out for me and watch out for any unknown visitors. I was gonna buy a gun. She stills calls me every now and then and doesn't say anything on the phone. Whacko! Just pray for protection and be cautious.
I literally don't have any female friends in the state I moved to since her. I get rid of anybody that makes me feel uncomfortable in any way and I am in the land of crazies apparently now. Lol. Whew. My heart is beating hard all over again. Let me stop talking/thinking her crazy behind up.
I'm sending you over some positive energy.
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Posted: 05 Nov 2009 at 8:34am |
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^^^ DANG, that sound like something from a movie
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Posted: 05 Nov 2009 at 8:42am |
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I know BeanyBabygirl. I wish it was a movie and that I wasn't the star. I heard she is out of jail/prison now too last week. I'm in security now and I have my gun permit already.
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Posted: 05 Nov 2009 at 8:51am |
It's sad that you all have to go thru this kind of insane behavior. Just take care & above all BE SAFE!!!
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Posted: 05 Nov 2009 at 9:01am |
Originally posted by AisaK
Ooh. I feel scared for you. I have been there with somebody hating me behind my back but is so close to me everybody asked if we were gay. I just thought she was needy. She was damn batty! I stopped being her friend several times and she just kept coming back in a few months pretending to be different. She tried to set her grandparents house on fire and robbed somebody(8 years after the fact) because they wouldn't let her live with them. She also attacked him later and tried to throw him down the stairs and she climbed on the roof of a tall building to try to gain access to a guys terrace to kill his cat because he wanted her to go home She attacked/arrested the guy I was dating several times for staying with me when I stopped being her friend because she introduced us. She is looney for real and I finally got away from her. She harassed me for a lil while but I changed my number and moved. I was fine until this year in March when she called me screaming and calling me an opportunistic whore. Who can trick themselves into being mad at the victim 3 years later? She is crazy and I was scared. I told everybody about her and to watch out for me and watch out for any unknown visitors. I was gonna buy a gun. She stills calls me every now and then and doesn't say anything on the phone. Whacko! Just pray for protection and be cautious.
I literally don't have any female friends in the state I moved to since her. I get rid of anybody that makes me feel uncomfortable in any way and I am in the land of crazies apparently now. Lol. Whew. My heart is beating hard all over again. Let me stop talking/thinking her crazy behind up.
I'm sending you over some positive energy.
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WOW,THAT'S SOME DEEP SH!T.
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