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    Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 8:55pm


Mom Refuses C-Section, Baby Taken Away

Wow, we just can't believe this.

A woman in New Jersey refused to consent to a C-section during labor in the event that her baby was in distress. She ended up giving birth vaginally without incident. The baby was in good medical condition.

However, her baby was taken away from her and her parental rights were terminated because she "abused and neglected her child" by refusing the C-section and behaving "erratically" while in labor.

How is this legal?

A New Jersey appellate court has upheld the shocking ruling, and custody has been given to the child's foster parents.

The court's decision cites hospital records that describe the mother, V.M., as "combative," "uncooperative," "erratic," "noncompliant," "irrational" and "inappropriate." That's how we acted during labor, too ... but our babies weren't taken away, thank God.

The court opinion also focuses on the fact that the mother had been in psychiatric care for twelve years prior to the birth. But, as the Huffington Post points out, her psychiatric state would never have been questioned if the mother had not refused invasive abdominal surgery -- which was entirely within her rights.

Read the entire court ruling here.

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Quote BlacBerri Replybullet Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 8:56pm
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Quote carmenqueasy Replybullet Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 8:57pm
That's ridiculous. They are doing too many c-sections nowadays, and the mother did nothing wrong in refusing one.
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Quote camille07 Replybullet Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 8:57pm
ridiculous.

c-sections are used in the us more than any other place.
.........because they typically aren't necessary.
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Quote Maple Syrup Replybullet Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 8:57pm
That's so dumb
Right now you probably thinking how she get in them jeans.
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Quote pattigurlatl Replybullet Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 8:57pm
This can't be right.
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Quote JungleDrum Replybullet Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 8:58pm
No no, fucc no!!!!  I cannot believe this!
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Quote JasmineE02 Replybullet Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 9:00pm
I sense that there is probably more to the story....
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at any time for no reason." - Professor Farnsworth, Futurama
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Quote 2bBsL Replybullet Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 9:00pm
i hope she gets her kid back
i will not be having a c section and ill be damned if they take my kid away
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Quote gold.nile Replybullet Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 9:01pm
WOW unbelievable
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Quote carmenqueasy Replybullet Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 9:02pm
Originally posted by 2bBsL

i hope she gets her kid back
i will not be having a c section and ill be damned if they take my kid away



If I ever have a kid, i'm doing it at home, naturally. These doctors are far too quick to slice people open.
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