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    Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 8:55pm


Mom Refuses C-Section, Baby Taken Away

Wow, we just can't believe this.

A woman in New Jersey refused to consent to a C-section during labor in the event that her baby was in distress. She ended up giving birth vaginally without incident. The baby was in good medical condition.

However, her baby was taken away from her and her parental rights were terminated because she "abused and neglected her child" by refusing the C-section and behaving "erratically" while in labor.

How is this legal?

A New Jersey appellate court has upheld the shocking ruling, and custody has been given to the child's foster parents.

The court's decision cites hospital records that describe the mother, V.M., as "combative," "uncooperative," "erratic," "noncompliant," "irrational" and "inappropriate." That's how we acted during labor, too ... but our babies weren't taken away, thank God.

The court opinion also focuses on the fact that the mother had been in psychiatric care for twelve years prior to the birth. But, as the Huffington Post points out, her psychiatric state would never have been questioned if the mother had not refused invasive abdominal surgery -- which was entirely within her rights.

Read the entire court ruling here.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 8:56pm
What??!!!!!
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 8:57pm
That's ridiculous. They are doing too many c-sections nowadays, and the mother did nothing wrong in refusing one.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 8:57pm
ridiculous.

c-sections are used in the us more than any other place.
.........because they typically aren't necessary.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 8:57pm
That's so dumb
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 8:57pm
This can't be right.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 8:58pm
No no, fucc no!!!!  I cannot believe this!
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 9:00pm
I sense that there is probably more to the story....
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 9:00pm
i hope she gets her kid back
i will not be having a c section and ill be damned if they take my kid away
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 9:01pm
Crazy
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 9:01pm
WOW unbelievable
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 9:02pm
Originally posted by 2bBsL

i hope she gets her kid back
i will not be having a c section and ill be damned if they take my kid away



If I ever have a kid, i'm doing it at home, naturally. These doctors are far too quick to slice people open.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 9:02pm
Originally posted by JasmineE02

I sense that there is probably more to the story....


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 9:02pm
Originally posted by JasmineE02

I sense that there is probably more to the story....
 
This
 
Cuz if that were me and my baby story, that hospital would be in flames, and I'd be filmed on the local news standing in front of the burning building with the used match held up to make it clear.
 
 
 
 
 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 9:14pm
"the mother had been in psychiatric care for twelve years prior to the birth."

After reading the baby eater thread...This should of been a reason to take the child if they felt it was in any real danger. The C-section reasoning seems like a scapegoat excuse because they didn't have enough evidence or support.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 9:19pm
Originally posted by Gkisses

"the mother had been in psychiatric care for twelve years prior to the birth."

After reading the baby eater thread...This should of been a reason to take the child if they felt it was in any real danger. The C-section reasoning seems like a scapegoat excuse because they didn't have enough evidence or support.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 9:20pm
Sad.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 9:20pm

I'm glad they took that baby away that crazy woman.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 9:22pm
wow..I don't even know what to say about that one
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 9:23pm
Originally posted by JasmineE02

I sense that there is probably more to the story....


I think so. I doubt she was the first woman in the history of the hospital to refuse a c-section. There has to be more to it.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 9:25pm
Originally posted by Dakotablu

Crazy
 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 9:29pm
i kinda side with tallcake/gkisses on this one now...

Edited by 2bBsL - 27 Jul 2009 at 9:29pm
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 9:33pm
Originally posted by CLCNY20

Originally posted by JasmineE02

I sense that there is probably more to the story....
 
This
 
Cuz if that were me and my baby story, that hospital would be in flames, and I'd be filmed on the local news standing in front of the burning building with the used match held up to make it clear.
 
 
 
 
 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 9:35pm
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 10:00pm
Looks like the baby was taken away because mom was unstable. Not "only" because she refused the C-Section. Both parents appear to have a history of mental instability.  I think the right decision was made to remove the baby. HOWEVER, I do not believe that it should have been a permanent removal and that she should lose all of her parental rights.  She should be monitored to see if her mental condition is improving.

I'd love to hear more details on this case though, to see what course of action was taken before the decision to permanently remove the child was  made.


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