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Cocoa
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Topic: Mom refuses C-section, baby taken away Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 8:55pm |
Mom Refuses C-Section, Baby Taken Away
Wow, we just can't believe this.
A woman in New Jersey refused to
consent to a C-section during labor in the event that her
baby was in distress. She ended up giving birth
vaginally without incident. The baby was in good medical
condition.
However, her baby was taken away from her and her parental
rights were terminated because she "abused and neglected her
child" by refusing
the C-section and behaving "erratically"
while in labor.
How is this legal?
A New Jersey appellate court has upheld the shocking ruling, and
custody has been given to the child's
foster
parents.
The court's decision cites hospital records that describe
the mother, V.M., as "combative,"
"uncooperative," "erratic,"
"noncompliant," "irrational" and
"inappropriate." That's how we acted during labor,
too ... but our babies weren't taken away, thank God.
The court opinion also focuses on the fact that the mother had
been in psychiatric care for twelve years prior to the birth. But,
as the Huffington Post points out, her psychiatric
state would never have been questioned if the mother had not
refused invasive abdominal surgery -- which was entirely within her
rights.
Read the entire court ruling here.
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BlacBerri
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Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 8:56pm |
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What??!!!!!
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carmenqueasy
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Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 8:57pm |
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That's ridiculous. They are doing too many c-sections nowadays, and the mother did nothing wrong in refusing one.
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camille07
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Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 8:57pm |
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ridiculous.
c-sections are used in the us more than any other place. .........because they typically aren't necessary.
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Maple Syrup
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Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 8:57pm |
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That's so dumb
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pattigurlatl
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Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 8:57pm |
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This can't be right.
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JungleDrum
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Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 8:58pm |
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No no, fucc no!!!! I cannot believe this!
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JasmineE02
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Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 9:00pm |
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I sense that there is probably more to the story....
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2bBsL
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Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 9:00pm |
i hope she gets her kid back
i will not be having a c section and ill be damned if they take my kid away
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Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 9:01pm |
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Crazy
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gold.nile
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Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 9:01pm |
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WOW unbelievable
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carmenqueasy
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Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 9:02pm |
Originally posted by 2bBsL
i hope she gets her kid back
i will not be having a c section and ill be damned if they take my kid away |
If I ever have a kid, i'm doing it at home, naturally. These doctors are far too quick to slice people open.
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tallcake
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Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 9:02pm |
Originally posted by JasmineE02
I sense that there is probably more to the story....
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CLCNY20
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Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 9:02pm |
Originally posted by JasmineE02
I sense that there is probably more to the story.... |
This
Cuz if that were me and my baby story, that hospital would be in flames, and I'd be filmed on the local news standing in front of the burning building with the used match held up to make it clear.
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Gkisses
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Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 9:14pm |
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"the mother had
been in psychiatric care for twelve years prior to the birth."
After reading the baby eater thread...This should of been a reason to take the child if they felt it was in any real danger. The C-section reasoning seems like a scapegoat excuse because they didn't have enough evidence or support.
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tallcake
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Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 9:19pm |
Originally posted by Gkisses
"the mother had
been in psychiatric care for twelve years prior to the birth."
After reading the baby eater thread...This should of been a reason to take the child if they felt it was in any real danger. The C-section reasoning seems like a scapegoat excuse because they didn't have enough evidence or support.
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Im_oh_so_hott
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Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 9:20pm |
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Sad.
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soxgirl119
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Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 9:20pm |
I'm glad they took that baby away that crazy woman.

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Goop Hair It Is
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Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 9:22pm |
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wow..I don't even know what to say about that one
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Tangie
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Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 9:23pm |
Originally posted by JasmineE02
I sense that there is probably more to the story....
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I think so. I doubt she was the first woman in the history of the hospital to refuse a c-section. There has to be more to it.
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Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 9:25pm |
Originally posted by Dakotablu
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2bBsL
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Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 9:29pm |
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i kinda side with tallcake/gkisses on this one now...
Edited by 2bBsL - 27 Jul 2009 at 9:29pm
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trinigyal298
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Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 9:33pm |
Originally posted by CLCNY20
Originally posted by JasmineE02
I sense that there is probably more to the story.... |
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Cuz if that were me and my baby story, that hospital would be in flames, and I'd be filmed on the local news standing in front of the burning building with the used match held up to make it clear.
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Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 9:35pm |
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sad
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hennypenny
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Posted: 27 Jul 2009 at 10:00pm |
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Looks like the baby was taken away because mom was unstable. Not "only" because she refused the C-Section. Both parents appear to have a history of mental instability. I think the right decision was made to remove the baby. HOWEVER, I do not believe that it should have been a permanent removal and that she should lose all of her parental rights. She should be monitored to see if her mental condition is improving.
I'd love to hear more details on this case though, to see what course of action was taken before the decision to permanently remove the child was made.
Edited by hennypenny - 27 Jul 2009 at 10:01pm
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