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The other day I told my mother and husband that we can't hate white people for what they've done and continue to do.
They spun around and clutched their pearls, gave me stank face, cut eye, the works.
We have to pity them. They've never been the same after realizing that they have no identity. They think it is a secret that they must conceal at all costs, or else....wait for it....they will shatter and break into a million pieces. The truth will literally and metaphorically kill them. To admit the truth is to completely shatter the illusion. What they do to us and the rest of the world is not because of us, but because of them.

Budda said that when a person hurts others it is because they are deeply hurt, and the hurt is spilling out. It is a cry.

I said to them, we don't have to hate them, the truth is stronger than anything else. When you know the truth, you spread the truth. An idea is contageous.

X said it. You can kill a man, but not an idea. He was soo right.

I know we weren't talking about race, but we're talking about hate and forgivenness..so

(Don't get me wrong, i still supprt separation, not segregation. I just don't feel the need to hate anyone for the things they do, since their hate has nothing to do with me, and everything to do with them)

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have to let that hurt go, and the person
so yeah..

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I actually forgive people for their own sake at times. I remember forgiving my ex roommate because she was pregnant and didn't need the stress. I tend to be too forgiving, but I've been trying to change that. When I forgive, people see me as a doormat and continue the same kind of behavior. So, no, I will not forgive and that actually gives me a lot more peace, expressing my anger instead of being forced to forgive because it's the right thing to do. I need to express my anger for my own sanity.

If the situation involves cheating, no, not forgiving.
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I don't know about all this forgiving stuff. Some people and situations are just plain unforgivable.

I feel like constantly expecting people to instantly forgive the most horrible fucckery is taking away from who we are: Human beings with human emotions. My take is this, as long as I'm in this human body for however long on this plain of existence, it is my right to get angry, hate, even to not forgive someone for what they do and not have them in my life.

Now am I supposed to let my feelings about the said person or situation affect and control my life 24/7/365? No. I gotta live after all and do ME, but everyone should have the right, as human and not robots, to be able to feel resentment in one way or another without wanting to take a life.
 


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