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eanaj5 
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 Posted: May 08 2014 at 8:38pm |
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forgiveness is difficult for me as well.
i find myself making the offender pay for it over and over, but im never really satisfied. then i cut them off cold turkey.
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Posted: May 08 2014 at 8:38pm |
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eta: sorta like we are saying forgiveness isn't about them but abo ut you. It frees you I think (forgvness)
(do I need to say you in general?) lol
Edited by PurplePhase - May 09 2014 at 1:31pm
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Posted: May 08 2014 at 8:48pm |
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i suppose...but when i cut them off i dont necessarily forgive them but its still a burden lifted lol...
for me its like, out of sight out of mind
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Posted: May 08 2014 at 8:55pm |
i do that too, eanaj... and dare them to be mad  i will ask "can you get me some water with your ____ ass?" then dip
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Posted: May 08 2014 at 8:59pm |
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i mean, why do some fcked up sh*t then expect to live comfortably in my life? no Brotha, thats grounds for forever shade...
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Posted: May 08 2014 at 9:43pm |
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i mean, why do some fcked up sh*t then expect to live comfortably in my life? no Brotha, thats grounds for forever shade...
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nah ho and if you dont like it, leave ho 
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Posted: May 08 2014 at 10:03pm |
What is the saying? "God forgives, I don't"? Yeah, usually I just forget about you but sometimes... 
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Posted: May 08 2014 at 10:08pm |
eanaj5 wrote:
forgiveness is difficult for me as well.
i find myself making the offender pay for it over and over, but im never really satisfied. then i cut them off cold turkey.
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i used to be like that. with a certain person i guess i still am. cutting them off doesnt help. i have to learn to forgive him...it helps ease my mind and i wont stay bitter forever. not saying you are...im just rambling
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Posted: May 08 2014 at 10:20pm |
Rick Ross uses it? Lawd lol. I heard it from another BHM member and it stuck.
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