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    Posted: May 08 2014 at 3:54pm
Forgiveness? Can you still forgive a person but not want anything to do with them? No small talk nothing?
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I was going to make this thread the other day... ps I wonder if the internet increase psychic abilities? Anyway Yes not easy at times but Yes! because What I learned is you forgive for yourself not for the other person who HURT you!... there is a therapeutic technique that involves writing a letter to the person who hurt you. being detailed and writing also how you would want them to apologize, in detail. The letter is not for mailing its for you to let out a clear picture of your feelings because a lot of times we are just regurgitating Our thoughts over and over and never releasing Never letting go so HEALING can take place.
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Yes I can forgive a person & let them know me forgiving you doesn't mean I want you in my life.
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yes, I have done so without even having a conversation with that person.

forgiveness is for you...to release the anger,bitterness, etc..from yourself so that you can be a better person. It has nothing to do with them. 
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I haven't been able to do that with my ex and it's been a few years. Not very good at forgiveness. Unless it's something minor.
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Originally posted by goodm3 goodm3 wrote:

yes, I have done so without even having a conversation with that person.

forgiveness is for you...to release the anger,bitterness, etc..from yourself so that you can be a better person. It has nothing to do with them. 


That's what my therapist kept saying. Can't quite put that into action though. But then again I'm ocd so it's my nature to relive stuff over and over again.


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I don't think forgiveness has anything to do with the other person.

but I know the definition varies
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I also think trust is more about the individual themselves and not the person/people they trust in, but that's another discussion and maybe someone will read my mind and make the thread tomorrow. lol


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Yes. I don't have the energy to maintain negitivity however if I know a person is not in my best interest, I can cut them off and not look back.
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Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

I also think trust is more about the individual themselves and not the person/people they trust in, but that's another discussion and maybe someone will read my mind and make the thread tomorrow. lol


lol

I don't get what you mean
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