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Originally posted by Babydoll9163 Babydoll9163 wrote:

Damn, 2 in a 15 minute span?

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Originally posted by Derri Derri wrote:

Casual sex is not for me, I don't even consider that an option in my life. Goodness! I can't imagine me...naw.
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Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Originally posted by ThatGurlD ThatGurlD wrote:

Is forever cohabitating considered single?  I mean single is the marital status.  I believe people can live their whole lives single in that right and be happy.


No that's partnered.

Single as in a life without a romantic or intimate partner
 
Umm I don't agree. Wink I think 'single' means not being 'married', partnered or in a committed relationship.
 
A life without a romantic or intimate partner would be a life of ... celibacy. Shocked  But you can have relationships that are intimate, romantic and sexual with men without being 'partnered' etc. It's just that at the end of the evening (except for sleepovers Tongue) ... everyone goes back to their own house and their own life. Clap 
 
This doesn't mean you're a tramp and sleeping with a bunch of guys either - there's just something between being in a committed relationship with 1 guy and being alone .. with no guy. Wink
 
When you are married or partnered or in a committed relationship ... you pretty much spend most of your time together with that guy and that is your life but ... everyone's not cut out for that level of compromise. Sometimes people don't find this out until they have already committed to someone- so then they have to stay. Sometimes people want this level of involvement .. but it doesn't work out that way, so they are single and are unhappy with their life.
 
Ultimately, I think the best relationship you can ever have (whether you are married or single) .. is the relationship that you have with yourself. Wink
 
 
 


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If I was single forever, I would go with number 1. I can't manage having a sexless life. 
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1. never want to marry, never want to date, but has causal sex

Interesting question, i think we all want love and sometimes i think our experiences in this quest can turn us off/on relationships. There are people (esp. men) who put other priorities in life first like jobs, education etc first and might want this kind of relationship, but might not find willing partners. Personally i think societal pressures force many of us to get into relationships, i honestly think from what i have seen is that we women give up a lot, when we get married, but some sacrifices are worth it, i guess.
 

2. never want to marry, never want to date, no sex (I guess self love does happen though)
Apart from Asexual people ( who are think have some disorder), they are many religions that ascribe to this.  Jesus, Paul, Mother Teresa, and i think Buddhist monks lived this way, isn't it divine or agape love the purest form of love? We all spiritual beings anyways, so this can be very possible for some people.

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I am doing one right now, and I am happy.

Not sure about number for eternity.
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no one is single by choice

they may make the active decision to besingle, but more than likely there is a backstory to that
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I'm wondering, is it hard for people to get their head around the idea that some people do not desire sex or sexual/romantic physical interaction? 

If it's possible for some people to have a high sex drive, and some people to have an average sex drive, then there are also some people with a super low sex drive or none at all (and not owing to medication/illness/improper circumstances/etc).
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You can be happy lacking a great deal of things, whether you want them or not.
 
 
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