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Originally posted by nala52808 nala52808 wrote:

For me, having someone who loves you, and having kids is great. But I sometimes feel like that life isn't for me. Maybe its because I'm still young and not that experienced when it comes to dating but I find relationships to be draining, and it requires me to make sacrifices that I just don't want to make. I'm just too selfish So id probably be happy being alone.
I understand where you coming from...
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I just don't know anymore.
I want to get married...preferably in my 20s...but I don't know.  I have bouts of social anxiety and social awkwardness.  Sometimes it seems easier to be just single and not interested into anyone.  Relationships seem like a lot of work.

1. never want to marry, never want to date, but has casual sex
Yes.  This is possible.  Is this like Samantha in Sex and the City?

2. never want to marry, never want to date, no sex (I guess self love does happen though)
I can see this with asexuals/aromantics.
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Whether a person is booed up, married, single or single with benefits, she/he will still find pros and cons in each of those lifestyles. Being forever single isn't too farfetched.
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Originally posted by 313chick 313chick wrote:


Originally posted by nala52808 nala52808 wrote:

For me, having someone who loves you, and having kids is great. But I sometimes feel like that life isn't for me. Maybe its because I'm still young and not that experienced when it comes to dating but I find relationships to be draining, and it requires me to make sacrifices that I just don't want to make. I'm just too selfish So id probably be happy being alone.
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this is what im aiming for in life.im very content with being alone.as long as i can have sex without dating im fine.been single for 9 n a half years so i want to keep the streak going
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Damn 9 years...I thought my 5 years was long
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5 yrs, 9 yrs
omg dang
oh but u want sex. 
hope everyone find the perfect partner for them


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Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Originally posted by ThatGurlD ThatGurlD wrote:

Is forever cohabitating considered single?  I mean single is the marital status.  I believe people can live their whole lives single in that right and be happy.


No that's partnered.

Single as in a life without a romantic or intimate partner

that sounds dreadful
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Damn! 9 years single!
Now I feel better about being single for 2 years....Heart
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yep.last time i saw a relationship was when i was a teenager.i knew from that point on that i wasnt about that monogamous relationship life
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