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    Posted: Nov 09 2013 at 12:43am
What is it that you go looking for?

A friend told me eff google, she looks up guys on  the county court public records. Little did I know the county site contained marriage and divorce dates, case information....I found that one guy I was deeply involved with was married at the time we were dating....let me rephrase, he GOT married while we were dating and divorced two years later. We broke up a year before his divorce. I told my girlfriend who later told another girlfriend and somehow word traveled back to him because he sent me a long ass email about marrying the girl because she was going into the military he wanted benefits and blah blah blah blah but there was nothing between them blah blah. Whatever, I've more than moved on.


Anyway, when you Google someone how much info are you googling?
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I want to know if the guy is really single, if he really has the job he claims he has, if he went to the college/university he claimed he did, and so on.
google, spokeo, pipl, peekyou are some search engines...

But now facebook is changing some search settings and you'll be able to find ANYONE on facebook; there's no more "i don't want to be found on search"  kind option, so if you know his first and last name, you can find more info faster (unless he has his profile not public).
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I look up court records. I found out that a guy who was trying to date me had domestic violence cases and restraining orders. 

I also look on sexual offenders websites and I saw this dude that is on my FB friends list. His charge had something to do with a minor. Then I started googling names that I saw on the offenders list and all of them had facebook pages. Like they ain't even ashamed. There are all kinds of rapists and child molesters on FB and I bet that a lot of people don't even know it. There is a man who was charged with 1st degree rape that lives around the corner from me. Thats why I tell people especially parents to always check that sex offenders list.
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I just looked up my ex and he had a domestic violence charge in 2008. Dodged a bullet!
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Woah. Where are the public county records?
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Originally posted by Jess Jess wrote:

Woah. Where are the public county records?


Look for the records within your county. Google "abc county records"
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I look up everything - linkedin, court records, property search. I usually start with a reverse phone look-up and whatever info I can find off his social media page.
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Marrying someone for military benefits?  That's a bit extreme...he must have been desparate! LOL

I'm married but I wish google was around when I was dating.  I had to find out using the old fashion way of finding out info--snooping, lol!  Single ladies use it please, and save you a world of hurt.

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I do this. Some people call it snooping, I call it "protecting myself for potential harm."
While it may be impossible to know anything about a person, you can be proactive about some things.
 
 
 
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Yeah, you have to do that, found out some people and what they done. Sheesh, I have a very clean record and you'll just find some youtube vids of me talking about the weekend videos and singing, but that's it.
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