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My sister just got pregnant for the first time @36, carried the baby for 18 weeks and miscarried.     She had just divorced and moved to a new place so she was stressed the whole time.  I'm so sad for her but she's going to try again.

The only issue I had was with the last one @ 37. Gestational Diabetes.  You might have to deal with that if your sugar levels are already high but you may not.  With it you would either have an enormous baby or do the insulin shots.  No where near as bad as I thought they would be.  They didnt let me go the full term but the Friday before I was scheduled to be induced I went in Labor. 

Delivery was he best experience I had in 3 pregnancies.   Reason being is that I was no longer young and dumb enough to be sitting there hollering about I want to deliver "natural"Dead.  The hell with that.  Those drugs were awesomeThumbs Up

My 2nd pregnancy @ 22 was the worst.  Nothing but problems.  She was the only girl. 

I had multiple miscarriages and what not between the 2nd and 3rd but lets not even talk about that mess.  Nothing went right honestly until I STOPPED stressing about it. 

You'll be fine, just work closely with your doctor and think positive.  For some reason I think that helps.  Positive energy gets into the little baby and it thrivesTongue 


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i do think stress plays a HUGE factor.  ladies please chill out...Heart
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Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

yeah binks he is very controlling...but shyt i believe he was that way from the begining.  but she is a mess too so i have to be fair. lol
 
anyway one time i had to light weight snap on him over some ramen noodles...LOLLOLLOL

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gonna be hard for me to relax lol
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Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

i have a girlfriend who is 47 her husband is 73.  their little girl is 8...



A know a few with that kind of age gap. That's not so bad IMO.


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yeah i was making some for myself, my god daughter, his daughter and 3 of his daughters friends in their kitchen and he came up talking about...why you making so much?Stern Smile  i was like look...liltc go grab $2.22 outta my purse so i can give it to uncle miser here...Stern Smile  he left me alone...LOL
 
yeah.  he just bought her a  $90K truck.  paid cash....Sleepy


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my dad was real laid back with mom. He said all the time that she was 'his boss lady' lol. But yeah, she ran most things at our house and he LOVED it.
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if i ever get pregnant, it will be by accident, and i since i'm in my 30s, i'll be bumping this thread and reporting back.. lol
i want to be a mother at some point, i'm not pressed on the timing because i am ok with adopting.
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kids are just so much work
i rather take a nap
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Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

i have a girlfriend who is 47 her husband is 73.  their little girl is 8...

oooo wee.
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