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Originally posted by Tbaby Tbaby wrote:

I think the greatest benefit with having kids later in life is that I had my career established and could afford to pump the brakes jobwise and have my kids.  Plus having a great husband really helps.  I contemplated being a single mom route (by adoption) but so glad I waited til marriage.


this is why i waited so long.
there are plenty of times.. I'm on fb and i see my former classmates w/ 3 kids ...and I'm like dern.... I wish i would have started earlier but my career was my 1st priority.

there are times when i try and make myself feel better. and im like NYC you're not that old.. and then i see pics of my my friends at football practice.. and I'm like damn. they have kids old enough to be on teams.. I'm ancient...lol

its like a double edged sword..and it feels like either way i lose.


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you mentioned going to the doctor and now you say why you waited....are you pregnant nyc?
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i mean waited in general.. lol

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Originally posted by Tbaby Tbaby wrote:

I think the greatest benefit with having kids later in life is that I had my career established and could afford to pump the brakes jobwise and have my kids.  Plus having a great husband really helps.  I contemplated being a single mom route (by adoption) but so glad I waited til marriage.

Tbaby gave me invaluable advice and a shoulderHug
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Originally posted by nycdiva357 nycdiva357 wrote:

i mean waited in general.. lol

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Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

i had a girlfriend in hs whose mom was 63 - dad was 73.  she felt some kind of way...
I was watching BCG last night and the new girl said her older sister was 64, her dad had her at 72. she was only about 22/22. I was like girl damn. her neices and nephews are in the 40's
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Originally posted by nycdiva357 nycdiva357 wrote:

Originally posted by Tbaby Tbaby wrote:

I think the greatest benefit with having kids later in life is that I had my career established and could afford to pump the brakes jobwise and have my kids.  Plus having a great husband really helps.  I contemplated being a single mom route (by adoption) but so glad I waited til marriage.


this is why i waited so long.
there are plenty of times.. I'm on fb and i see my former classmates w/ 3 kids ...and I'm like dern.... I wish i would have started earlier but my career was my 1st priority.

there are times when i try and make myself feel better. and im like NYC you're not that old.. and then i see pics of my my friends at football practice.. and I'm like damn. they have kids old enough to be on teams.. I'm ancient...lol

its like a double edged sword..and it feels like either way i lose.


 
same here and Im not even 30 yet. all my friends have kids. granted im younger than them all but still sometimes it does cross my mind. But then i think youre not even married so dont beat up yourself
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Originally posted by Princess_S Princess_S wrote:

Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

i had a girlfriend in hs whose mom was 63 - dad was 73.  she felt some kind of way...
I was watching BCG last night and the new girl said her older sister was 64, her dad had her at 72. she was only about 22/22. I was like girl damn. her neices and nephews are in the 40's


I have great neices/nephews my age and older LOL
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i have a girlfriend who is 47 her husband is 73.  their little girl is 8...
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Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

i have a girlfriend who is 47 her husband is 73.  their little girl is 8...


is he richLOL
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