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nitabug
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Posted: Jan 23 2013 at 2:52pm |
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I know - that's taboo to say it, but it's a reality. Being
morbidly obese is NOT okay just because you're able to laugh and smile
through the day.
I don't get how being honest and speaking an opinion that may not be popular = condescension. Especially when what I'm saying isn't anything that can't be read in the JAMA or supported by the AMA. Sure, you can laugh and smile and have great days and bad days like anyone else. But morbid obesity = a limitation to a quality of life.
Please note QUALITY of life is not the same as HAPPINESS as happiness is subjective. Quality of life is something that is far more concrete. That's what I spoke to, not whether an obese person wakes up in a good mood every day.
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some of the same ppl teehee'ing at this woman were the first ones to
say "don't talk about fat ppl not being able to be happy". If you don't
see the hypocrisy in that, then so be it - but it doesn't change the
fact that it's there.
1. Exactly 2. That is your opinion 3. If you don't see the condescension in your posts in that thread, so be it. Tone and delivery really comes into play.
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Lady ICE
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Posted: Jan 23 2013 at 2:57pm |
Az~Maverick wrote:
Naturalchick30 wrote:
Az~Maverick wrote:
Well now......that can't be healthy.
And she needs to stop lying. What is this "exercise" she speaks of??
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......and the occasional walk to the bathroom. LOL | thats the only workout i get. i wont lie...but dang why yall goin hard on ol girl? stretch coffins and stuff...smh.
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Posted: Jan 23 2013 at 3:34pm |
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when you are that big the only thing you can do is laugh and smile the day away
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ms_wonderland
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Posted: Jan 23 2013 at 3:41pm |
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I just watched the video. The oldest daughter doesn't seem happy to me.
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Posted: Jan 23 2013 at 3:48pm |
....and here come the paragraphs
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india100
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Posted: Jan 23 2013 at 4:00pm |
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The lady gain the weight on purpose right ? I Guess she feels the look is worth the health risk . I would never want a big old booty like that, but she chose to look like that . Many skinny people have serious weight related health issues if you really think about it .
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Posted: Jan 23 2013 at 4:38pm |
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I think she actually enjoys the negative attention she gets.
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Posted: Jan 23 2013 at 5:03pm |
modelbusiness82 wrote:
Sooooo here, it's not okay for her to be big & happy and ppl ARE allowed to throw shade? Bc in the "can fat chicks be happy" thread ppl practically broke their necks to snap at anyone who said there's such a thing as being too big and it NOT being a good thing.
So...only when there's an actual pic attached that we can all heckle? Otherwise if it's "hypothetical" ppl shouldn't be honest.
#bhmdoublestandard
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femmemichelle
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Posted: Jan 23 2013 at 5:06pm |
Junior Jr wrote:
SamoneLenior wrote:
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yeah. they're like The Blueprint. sure theyre nice, but also way overhyped
jr. |
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Edited by femmemichelle - Jan 23 2013 at 5:08pm
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ms_wonderland
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Posted: Jan 23 2013 at 5:07pm |
Tbaby wrote:
I think she actually enjoys the negative attention she gets.
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