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Sh!t done changed. It takes two incomes nowadays to be able to do what one could back in the day. It's unrealistic to think a someone can sit back and ride it out while the other is out grinding.
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Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

I would go dutch on a house. I don't have a problem with that.


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well if bhm men feel more comfortable with a woman making more than him

to ensure that she won't have to depend on you (due to children etc)

Then tell us something

with money comes power so let us know if you're also down for that shift or you prefer her earn but remain traditional


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"with money comes power?"
what type of power is being exercised exactly?
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote BBpants Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 15 2014 at 8:34pm
Only if we married tho....can't be buying houses with just any ol' body lol
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Originally posted by OoDles O OoDles O wrote:

"with money comes power?"
what type of power is being exercised exactly?

lol right. it reads as if the chick is gonna turn into Omerosa

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i'm totally cool if she makes more than me. it's all going into the same pot anyway and i'm still running the show

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I don't think women who make more believe in the 1 pot rule
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most would help with the mortgage in some way

Children cost women earning potential and time and so if a husband can weather the mortgage singlehandedly and the wife can supplement add to it as a bonus ... there's more flexibility 

We just had the sahm convo and it's benefit to kids etc

Hard to have it both ways, have a mother contribute exactly half the income but stay home long enough to breastfeed and to at least nurture the kids to school age

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why would you still run the show jr?

Oodles, maybe similar to what ajack calls head all high up in the air?
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