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Originally posted by Junior Jr Junior Jr wrote:

Originally posted by trudawg trudawg wrote:

It's no different from what ladies would do. If she's on the come up, then of course. If she stagnant then hell no

word. i can't deal with a broke chick who's not working on fixing it but if she's hustling to make it right, it's cool.

jr.

Have to agree with these fine gentlemen!
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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:

what if the woman is broke but her family has money?

shiet, if her folks have money, as long as she's not bothering me all day, she's good

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Originally posted by sbrownie84 sbrownie84 wrote:

Doesn't have much offer you financially. She is not on your level financially yet? Should women still date if they do not have their stuff together yet?


Is she purely broke? If so than no and if she having financial problems but fixing it than yes we can go together. But I cannot be with someone who does not work or continues making horrible choices.
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We going half on the house.
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she asked if she wasn't able to OFFER you anything financially and if she didn't make as much as you

Do the BHM men want their SO to make the same or more than him?   I doubt that's a prerequisite.

But I don't know what's she means by stuff together.  That bar could be low or high

Ramen?
Steak?
A kitchen to cook it in?
Own house with a great kitchen?
Vacation house?
And up

No idea.


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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


why are you going half?

not saying you should or shouldn't, but why do you want to go half?


Um, if we are married both of our finances go in half. Either way if we divorce she is gonna get the house due to law so may as well loose all my money.
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Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:

she asked if she wasn't able to OFFER you anything financially a<span style="line-height: 1.4;">nd if she didn't make as much as you</span>

Do the BHM men want their SO to make the same or more than him?   I doubt that's a prerequisite.

But I don't know what's she means by stuff together.  That bar could be low or high

Ramen?
Steak?
A kitchen to cook it in?
Own house with a great kitchen?
Vacation house?
And up

No idea.




You need to at least make middle wage money as I do. Or otherwise I'm not messing with you all like that.
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Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:

she asked if she wasn't able to OFFER you anything financially and if she didn't make as much as you

Do the BHM men want their SO to make the same or more than him?   I doubt that's a prerequisite.

But I don't know what's she means by stuff together.  That bar could be low or high

Ramen?
Steak?
A kitchen to cook it in?
Own house with a great kitchen?
Vacation house?
And up

No idea.




I almost made that thread last week but I remembered there's not that many guys here lol. But I wonder how many would like  a relationship like that. I know a few who are thriving , but based on what I read  it doesn't seem realistic.
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lol purp

Dutch on dinner, sir gtfoh

Dutch on a house, well let's discuss 





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half huh Mercy

So guess your wife's going back to work the weekend after the baby?

Hope you say this before the first date
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