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Btw I don't think I love you always means anything. I actually think it can be a way of manipulating someone but you can usually tell the difference.
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Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Since OP hasnt addressed my question and assuming stroke game is equally stellar .. i would commit to an open relationship option 2 until i found the combo. Final answer.


damn, i like this answer.
number 1 does sound like a piece of sh!t anyways. at least #2 gives you stuff.
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#2. Words mean nothing to me if the actions don't support them. That said, I want to hear it too.
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I can't deal with no PDA and no verbal affirmations.

You can buy and do all this, but you can't do the free stuff that make my day a little brighter?

No compliments? No verbal discussion of your love?

Nope. Homebody aint bout to play the game like that with me.

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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Printer_Ink Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 16 2014 at 6:44am
Originally posted by mangachan mangachan wrote:

Would you rather...

1...be in a relationship with someone who says "I love you" and complimented your appearance often but doesn't actually do things indicating they are into you seriously.  They are slack with spending time with you or showing real commitment.

2...be in a relationship were the person doesn't say "I love you", maybe isn't really into pda, and sparingly complimented your appearance.  They do buy things for you, takes care of things on your behalf, and discuss future plans indicating they see you in their life long term. 


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I think most guys love a woman - they fall into category number 2. Guys have trouble 'saying' they love you but their 'actions' show how they feel.
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Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

Which one payin' all the bills?
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I just recently had a guy tell me he loved me, but he proposed to someone else so imma go with 2 for the sake of this scenario.

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My relationship started as two.
But our affection has grown.

I knew he loved me but the small things were lacking.
FF to now and we do the PDA and all the romantic stuff .
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neither. ive been through number 2 and it was painful tbh.
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Well actions were once thoughts.
You can't 'do' love without first thinking it, and since love can't be kept to the Self, it needs to be expressed in all forms.
It is highly unlikely for a person feeling and thinking love to do it without saying it as well.

I'm not saying he can't do it without saying it, but to my mind, that would indicate that his mind's desires are (selfish) fighting against his Self's desires (which is to share itself with me in all ways)

Now most people fall into this category where love in concerned. All of your life your society conditions your mind to separate and build itself up, simultaneously your Self is longing to do it's purpose, which is to team up and build up. The mind masquerading as the Self of the person is now in a state of confusion and shock. ("What is happening to me?")

This is why most men lose their ego when they find their wives. Ego/ self service and love cannot operate at the same time, and the energy of love is just more satisfying to the Self of the person than separatism. (Of course as with everything in nature as we know it, there are times when things don't go according to this "natural law")

2 would be my option only if I too love the man, and not just want to be a part of his physical experiences.


Edited by Derri - Mar 16 2014 at 10:07am
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