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Originally posted by nekamarie83 nekamarie83 wrote:

yes, and i legit blame/credit my upbringing.

as an only child to a single mother, my grandmother did her fair share of raising me. i was with her and her friends all the time or with my great grandmother. i'm all of 6 years younger than my mom's youngest sibling, so i felt like my uncles and aunts were like brothers and sisters to a degree. lastly, my family never "talked" to me like a child.

the end result? i get on well with people older than me and i look more than slightly antiquated at times to many of my friends. they put up with me anyway. oh... and i love hearing "when i was growing up" stories.


We must have the same family. You should probably not be using 7 year olds as a sounding board for marital issues or as a vehicle to help you pick retirement plans.Ermm
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Yes...i'm kind of a loner...i dont really 'like' people...i tolerate them
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Originally posted by mangachan mangachan wrote:

We must have the same family. You should probably not be using 7 year olds as a sounding board for marital issues or as a vehicle to help you pick retirement plans.Ermm
[ak]guurrrl[/ak] Like, uuuuuum, I'm a kid…why are you asking me?

Then people outside your fam like "she's so mature and well-behaved" or "why would you know about _____?"
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote Sang Froid Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 04 2014 at 8:22pm
Uh....I don't feel like I don't fit in.
I don't ponder about how different I am than everyone else. 
I just be livin'.
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All of this!

Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:


It's not something i'm sad or unhappy about though... I like being different.
I don't wish to fit in.
I look at the people I grew up with..and they are going down a totally different path than I am.
Some are having babies, getting married lol, and all that other premature stuff.

I'm not about that life. 
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I know I'm a weirdo and I don't mind!
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Yep with age i care less about it.
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I feel like I 'fit in'.

I feel unique (isn't everyone?) but I know I fit in with my peers. After talking & listening to people I meet the more I realize that we all share some similar beliefs, wants and needs.Heart
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never fit in it

I'm either too much of this or not enough of that for people I meet

if I look like x I should act like x

if I have accomplished x I should act like x

if I don't like to do x something must be wrong with me

and then there always the fact that my introversion turns people off to the point some seem to get angry

I accept me but they didn't

especially black folks around my age

and no non blacks were not more accepting and I wouldn't want non black friends anyway

still don't want non black friends

and no I don't think I am a special or unique kind of black woman either lol

I'm just remarking on how I have been treated

Edited by SamoneLenior - Mar 05 2014 at 4:28am
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I don't fit in anywhere but I'm used to it. It doesn't bother me at this point in my life.
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