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    Posted: Mar 04 2014 at 4:35pm
Have you ever felt like you just don't "Fit in" with your generation or the people around you the same age as you in the same city you're in? Even though you've known many people since grade school you're just not friends, more like acquaintances?

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i have felt like at time...however I don't see that as a bad thing. i've always accepted/embraced it.

and speaking of friends from HS...i never intended on being life long friends with them. I always knew my life long friends would come from college and my early career. And so far...that has held true.
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It's not something i'm sad or unhappy about though... I like being different.
I don't wish to fit in.
I look at the people I grew up with..and they are going down a totally different path than I am.
Some are having babies, getting married lol, and all that other premature stuff.

I'm not about that life. 
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (2) Thanks(2)   Quote Lady ICE Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 04 2014 at 4:56pm
all my life.
but i dont want to fit in now.
i cant anyways.
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I always felt  out  of place. for obvious and not so obvious reasons.
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yup. never have and probably never will.
i stopped worrying about it after high school though.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (3) Thanks(3)   Quote ModelessDiva Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 04 2014 at 5:07pm
And I def dont fit in with most of my generation.

For one my generation as a whole has a strange fascination with drugs. People these days will pop/smoke/sniff anything to get high...

I dont understand it. 

and before anybody gets offended, I'm not knocking or looking down on anybody, im just answering the OP....Beer

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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (3) Thanks(3)   Quote creole booty Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 04 2014 at 5:11pm
Why do u think I'm on bhm so much? At least when I'm not fitting in here, I can just log out lol.

It's ok not to fit. Accept that u r unique and enjoy the awkwardness.
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I have always been there with the exception of a few friends and my immediate family.  As far as people my own age I don't relate well to peers for the most part because I don't really engage in pop culture.  Even my bf is older than me by almost 10 years.
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