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Maybe off topic but everyone's definition of a good parent is dif. I've seen some folks praise their SO on social media meanwhile I'm looking like but didnt he leave you and you to starve Confused they just doing it for the gram.
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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:



http://forum.blackhairmedia.com/any-lawyers-on-here_topic191364_page1.html

or law students or public workers or anyone who knows the law period.  my S/O has two sons beside my children.  he owes a lot of back child support. not for lack of trying.  but its a lot because his sons mother didnt file for child support. she stayed on Aid the entire 5 ys she could and when she got off the state went after him to pay that money back.  we live in illinois.  he owes a lot of money to the state of indiana.  We wanna go on a bahamian cruise in november, but i read a lot online about passport revocation laws for people who are in debt of child support over 5,000.  so is there any way around it?  any loopholes?  are we confined to vacays within the united states for years? even for our honeymoon?  HELP!
 
 
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Originally posted by hauteshellbi hauteshellbi wrote:

Jesus be an ignore button


I know that's right.  I try to scroll on too


Sounds like men don't want that maternal dna in their children just a one night drunken stand lol
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Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by Meme0887 Meme0887 wrote:

This is exactly what my friend deals with.

From day 1 this fool always chose some girl's kids over his own. He has 3 with my friend, one with some sex buddy, and possibly another with the new girl (now wife..and he has known her for like 7 months). And the wife has some of her own. They call him daddy and she was praising him on facebook about how he's a good husband and father to her kids.

He calls his kids maybe once a week or every 2 weeks. 

She's just as sorry as him for thinking she has a good man.


Your friend get the side eye too tho.......3?

She already know..all of us keep telling her the same thing and she never listens..smh
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Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

Originally posted by Meme0887 Meme0887 wrote:

This is exactly what my friend deals with.

From day 1 this fool always chose some girl's kids over his own. He has 3 with my friend, one with some sex buddy, and possibly another with the new girl (now wife..and he has known her for like 7 months). And the wife has some of her own. They call him daddy and she was praising him on facebook about how he's a good husband and father to her kids.

He calls his kids maybe once a week or every 2 weeks. 


 
where the 3 with him his first 3?

 

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i've never encountered these type of men
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Originally posted by callmeDEva callmeDEva wrote:

As fcuked up as it sounds, it may be easier for them to pick up somewhere else and start over. Plus they're probably bitter with the mother of the the child & taking it out on the kids. Or it's out of sight, out of mind.

No different than divorced fathers who re-marry and do more for their new children than for the old. My sons grandfather has a 100k+ job, but took his three boys he had with his ex wife to goodwill during Christmas although his three new children had gifts under the tree. True story. Some men are just pieces of sh*t like that.


That's my grandfather, lol.  Some people like their new kids better.  Meh.
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I never understood this either but it easier to convince a woman that doesn't have a stable father for her kids already that new daddy is going to be so much better but I don't see how any woman can rationalize that when the man already has kids that hes not taking care of.
Don't let me get on these women that knew the man already had a trailer load of kids and felt the need to add on to the tribe.
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Sandra she lived in Flint/Jackson or the Eastside of Detroit didnt she?Ouch
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The father ain't ish, and the girlfriend really ain't ish.
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