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ThoughtCouture 
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 Posted: Jun 16 2014 at 4:53pm |
 SamoneLenior wrote:
http://forum.blackhairmedia.com/any-lawyers-on-here_topic191364_page1.html
or law students or public workers or anyone who knows the law period.
my S/O has two sons beside my children. he owes a lot of back child
support. not for lack of trying. but its a lot because his sons mother
didnt file for child support. she stayed on Aid the entire 5 ys she
could and when she got off the state went after him to pay that money
back. we live in illinois. he owes a lot of money to the state of
indiana. We wanna go on a bahamian cruise in november, but i read a lot
online about passport revocation laws for people who are in debt of
child support over 5,000. so is there any way around it? any
loopholes? are we confined to vacays within the united states for
years? even for our honeymoon? HELP!
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mizzsandra00
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Posted: Jun 16 2014 at 5:00pm |
Meme0887 wrote:
This is exactly what my friend deals with.
From day 1 this fool always chose some girl's kids over his own. He has 3 with my friend, one with some sex buddy, and possibly another with the new girl (now wife..and he has known her for like 7 months). And the wife has some of her own. They call him daddy and she was praising him on facebook about how he's a good husband and father to her kids.
He calls his kids maybe once a week or every 2 weeks.
She's just as sorry as him for thinking she has a good man.
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Your friend get the side eye too tho.......3?
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ThoughtCouture
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Posted: Jun 16 2014 at 5:08pm |
mizzsandra00 wrote:
rell85 wrote:
It's about the woman not the kids. |
Yep.....I have seen some good men get jerked around and some aint shyt niccas get chased......and by the same woman.....its really sad......some women like to use these babies as pawns and you have two types of men......the ones that say fuqq it and the ones that fight for their kids..... |
ok...but what are these good mens excuse when the child is roaming around with a cell phone and/or the ability to speak for themselves? why aren't they reaching out and forging some sort of relationship with the child independently of the mother to find out what is going on with the child? that's what i typically ask dead beats and they generally have no answer...i'm sorry but i can't say that i know any good men who genuinely want to contribute (financially and/or emotionally) to their childrens life and can't/don't despite baby mama drama set backs...
Edited by ThoughtCouture - Jun 16 2014 at 5:12pm
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ThoughtCouture
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Posted: Jun 16 2014 at 5:11pm |
Meme0887 wrote:
This is exactly what my friend deals with.
From day 1 this fool always chose some girl's kids over his own. He has 3 with my friend, one with some sex buddy, and possibly another with the new girl (now wife..and he has known her for like 7 months). And the wife has some of her own. They call him daddy and she was praising him on facebook about how he's a good husband and father to her kids.
He calls his kids maybe once a week or every 2 weeks. |
where the 3 with him his first 3?
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mizzsandra00
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Posted: Jun 16 2014 at 5:13pm |
ThoughtCouture wrote:
mizzsandra00 wrote:
rell85 wrote:
It's about the woman not the kids. |
Yep.....I have seen some good men get jerked around and some aint shyt niccas get chased......and by the same woman.....its really sad......some women like to use these babies as pawns and you have two types of men......the ones that say fuqq it and the ones that fight for their kids..... |
ok...but what are these good mens excuse when the child is roaming with a cell phone and/or the ability to speak for themselves? why aren't they reaching out and forging some sort of relationship with the child independently of the mother to find out what is going on with the child? that's what i typically ask dead beats and they generally have no answer...i'm sorry but i can't say that i know any good men who genuinely want to contribute (financially and/or emotionally) to their childrens life and can't/don't despite baby mama drama set backs... |
Im not condoning the ones that say  it.....at all....im just saying some niccas don't care.....I applaud the ones that stay in court deal with a bias system all to be in the kids life.....I know a guy that hasn't seen his baby in 8 months.....pays child support sends clothes and shoes and drive to a different state to see his kid.......baby momma had him drive from chicago to michigan just to have him turn around an hour away.......my sisters ex has been suing for custody of his son for 3 years.....and the kid had been with him the entire time.....he won and put his bm on child support...... 
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ThoughtCouture
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Posted: Jun 16 2014 at 5:19pm |
mizzsandra00 wrote:
Im not condoning the ones that say it.....at all....im just saying some niccas don't care.....I applaud the ones that stay in court deal with a bias system all to be in the kids life.....I know a guy that hasn't seen his baby in 8 months.....pays child support sends clothes and shoes and drive to a different state to see his kid.......baby momma had him drive from chicago to michigan just to have him turn around an hour away.......my sisters ex has been suing for custody of his son for 3 years.....and the kid had been with him the entire time.....he won and put his bm on child support...... |
ahhhh ok yes...i know there are some wretched baby mommas out there...but i'd still expect any man i'm laying with to be agonizing over it. you know? i'm glad your ex brother in law won and put her azz (i'm assuming not your sister lol) on child support. good for him.
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Princess_S
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Posted: Jun 16 2014 at 5:30pm |
Maybe off topic but everyone's definition of a good parent is dif. I've seen some folks praise their SO on social media meanwhile I'm looking like but didnt he leave you and you to starve  they just doing it for the gram.
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Rumbera
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Posted: Jun 16 2014 at 5:36pm |
ThoughtCouture wrote:
SamoneLenior wrote:
http://forum.blackhairmedia.com/any-lawyers-on-here_topic191364_page1.html
or law students or public workers or anyone who knows the law period.
my S/O has two sons beside my children. he owes a lot of back child
support. not for lack of trying. but its a lot because his sons mother
didnt file for child support. she stayed on Aid the entire 5 ys she
could and when she got off the state went after him to pay that money
back. we live in illinois. he owes a lot of money to the state of
indiana. We wanna go on a bahamian cruise in november, but i read a lot
online about passport revocation laws for people who are in debt of
child support over 5,000. so is there any way around it? any
loopholes? are we confined to vacays within the united states for
years? even for our honeymoon? HELP!
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whatever.......
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iliveforbhm
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Posted: Jun 16 2014 at 5:47pm |
Fcgriffin wrote:
hauteshellbi wrote:
Jesus be an ignore button |
I know that's right. I try to scroll on too |
Sounds like men don't want that maternal dna in their children just a one night drunken stand lol
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Meme0887
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Posted: Jun 16 2014 at 5:48pm |
mizzsandra00 wrote:
Meme0887 wrote:
This is exactly what my friend deals with.
From day 1 this fool always chose some girl's kids over his own. He has 3 with my friend, one with some sex buddy, and possibly another with the new girl (now wife..and he has known her for like 7 months). And the wife has some of her own. They call him daddy and she was praising him on facebook about how he's a good husband and father to her kids.
He calls his kids maybe once a week or every 2 weeks.
She's just as sorry as him for thinking she has a good man.
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Your friend get the side eye too tho.......3? |
She already know..all of us keep telling her the same thing and she never listens..smh
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