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My SO can meet the fam after a yr
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They have a big enough reason...she probably put them threw hell when she was using...they will always remember her as that...maybe he needs to let them see her one at time to be reintroduce as the new her.
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Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

How long yall dating folks before they meet the fam?


they can meet at the wedding.
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Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

How long yall dating folks before they meet the fam?


they can meet at the wedding.



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No matter how much love is love, a r/s is a lot of work. Throw in additional challenges like a bold family and it's like adding weight to a life vest. Sadly, we often initially ignore the red flags and end up sinking after all the dead weight added to our r/s.
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I'm in this situation. My family doesn't like my bf. This is 40%  my fault though because every time we would have a problem (which is often) I would talk shiet. Now everybody hates him and side eye me for being with him still. It makes things very difficult. 

This is also what Kandi did wrong too.....never talk about your relationship problems with.....anybody.
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dont talk to me about sheittt you going through unless there is physical abuse. If you talking sheitt one day and smooching the next day... my mind will only register the aint sheitt negro you spoke of.
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Family must love my SO.
No negotiations

I like family gatherings and like to bring my SO to them
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what it boils down to IMO is if your family actually has your best interests at heart or are they on some I don't want you to be happy type sh*t.

If I had shady relatives then their sour disposition would be taken into consideration with anything they tell me.

If I had a loving family then tbh they would most likely try to like him for my sake if it's simply a clash of personalities as opposed to him being a genuinely bad person.

Not every family is loving and not all blood is thick.
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Originally posted by NuAttitude NuAttitude wrote:

Originally posted by sugabanana sugabanana wrote:

Chile bye!!! my family is thicker. Besides why is the family not liking the green snake in the green grass?

She has a very extensive past where she was heavy into drugs (crystal meth).  His family absolutely HATES her, but he's in love with her and caught in the middle. They have a family reunion coming up and they told him he better not bring her.Ouch 




So they basically said fucc her no matter how well she is doing now? She can find her second chance somewhere else? That's unfair.
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