Family vs SO

NuAttitude wrote: BBpants wrote: My family doesn't have to like my so. I'm not dating them to please my family. True, but if your SO was never invited to family vacations, picnics, events, Thanksgiving, etc.....would you go and leave your SO lonely?

I would invite my so as long as everyone is civil. But if it gets to the point where my fam and so can't be civil, he can keep his ass at home lol I would sit down with him and say, "you know done f*cked up right? Now you gotta stay home. Sorry."


Edited by BBpants - Aug 22 2014 at 3:28pm

BBpants wrote: NuAttitude wrote: BBpants wrote: My family doesn't have to like my so. I'm not dating them to please my family. True, but if your SO was never invited to family vacations, picnics, events, Thanksgiving, etc.....would you go and leave your SO lonely? I would invite my so as long as everyone is civil. But if it gets to the point where my fam and so can't be civil, he can keep his ass at home lol I would sit down with him and say, "you know done f*cked up right? Now you gotta stay home. Sorry."

does this depend if i right hook your bros or if they right hook me and i body slam them?

in other words depending on who started it??

miana79 wrote: No person should have to choose bothe should be possible!! If they love him they should respect what makes him happy. I have seen so many jealous family members who are in a bad place or single so they cant be happy for others ansd  ruin relationships etc.  Jealousy and insecurity will have you hate people you dont even know!! some just hate how much  others love you. Everyone should follow their heart!!

what if their dislike is justified?

BBpants wrote: NuAttitude wrote: BBpants wrote: My family doesn't have to like my so. I'm not dating them to please my family. True, but if your SO was never invited to family vacations, picnics, events, Thanksgiving, etc.....would you go and leave your SO lonely? I would invite my so as long as everyone is civil. But if it gets to the point where my fam and so can't be civil, he can keep his ass at home lol I would sit down with him and say, "you know done f*cked up right? Now you gotta stay home. Sorry."

afrokock wrote: BBpants wrote: NuAttitude wrote: BBpants wrote: My family doesn't have to like my so. I'm not dating them to please my family. True, but if your SO was never invited to family vacations, picnics, events, Thanksgiving, etc.....would you go and leave your SO lonely? I would invite my so as long as everyone is civil. But if it gets to the point where my fam and so can't be civil, he can keep his ass at home lol I would sit down with him and say, "you know done f*cked up right? Now you gotta stay home. Sorry." does this depend if i right hook your bros or if they right hook me and i body slam them? in other words depending on who started it??

It doesn't matter who started it. Your ass is staying home. I wanna enjoy my family dinners in peace But I would break up if there was a physical fight. My brothers are real laid back and chill and you really gotta piss them off to get them into fight mode.


My older sister is in this situation right now....my other sister throw a cup a beer in her so's face and now he can't come in the house anymore unless it's to get the baby lol