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BBpants
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Posted: Aug 22 2014 at 3:27pm |
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afrokock
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Posted: Aug 22 2014 at 3:28pm |
NuAttitude wrote:
BBpants wrote:
My family doesn't have to like my so. I'm not dating them to please my family.
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True, but if your SO was never invited to family vacations, picnics, events, Thanksgiving, etc.....would you go and leave your SO lonely? |
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afrokock
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Posted: Aug 22 2014 at 3:29pm |
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NuAttitude
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Posted: Aug 22 2014 at 3:31pm |
miana79 wrote:
No person should have to choose bothe should be possible!! If they love him they should respect what makes him happy. I have seen so many jealous family members who are in a bad place or single so they cant be happy for others ansd ruin relationships etc. Jealousy and insecurity will have you hate people you dont even know!! some just hate how much others love you.
Everyone should follow their heart!!
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Well said!  You have a point.
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afrokock
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Posted: Aug 22 2014 at 3:33pm |
miana79 wrote:
No person should have to choose bothe should be possible!! If they love him they should respect what makes him happy. I have seen so many jealous family members who are in a bad place or single so they cant be happy for others ansd ruin relationships etc. Jealousy and insecurity will have you hate people you dont even know!! some just hate how much others love you. Everyone should follow their heart!!
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what if their dislike is justified?
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K_Camille
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Posted: Aug 22 2014 at 3:33pm |
There's probably something wrong if they all hate him..  If I really felt he was a good one, I'd bring him to a couple events, given the fam ain't talking shyt openly in his presence..if they start sending me texts at the function and evil eyes, I'd suggest we leave early..and visit his fam. Shyt, tough cookies when nobody likes ya..I'm generally not around family that much but holidays make things difficult..
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NuAttitude
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Posted: Aug 22 2014 at 3:33pm |
BBpants wrote:
NuAttitude wrote:
BBpants wrote:
My family doesn't have to like my so. I'm not dating them to please my family.
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True, but if your SO was never invited to family vacations, picnics, events, Thanksgiving, etc.....would you go and leave your SO lonely? |
I would invite my so as long as everyone is civil. But if it gets to the point where my fam and so can't be civil, he can keep his ass at home lol I would sit down with him and say, "you know done f*cked up right? Now you gotta stay home. Sorry." 
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NuAttitude
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Posted: Aug 22 2014 at 3:34pm |
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BBpants
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Posted: Aug 22 2014 at 3:39pm |
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NuAttitude
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Posted: Aug 22 2014 at 3:41pm |
sugabanana wrote:
Chile bye!!! my family is thicker. Besides why is the family not liking the green snake in the green grass? |
She has a very extensive past where she was heavy into drugs (crystal meth). His family absolutely HATES her, but he's in love with her and caught in the middle. They have a family reunion coming up and they told him he better not bring her.
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