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Originally posted by NuAttitude NuAttitude wrote:

Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

My family doesn't have to like my so. I'm not dating them to please my family.
True, but if your SO was never invited to family vacations, picnics, events, Thanksgiving, etc.....would you go and leave your SO lonely?


I would invite my so as long as everyone is civil. But if it gets to the point where my fam and so can't be civil, he can keep his ass at home lol I would sit down with him and say, "you know done f*cked up right? Now you gotta stay home. Sorry." LOL


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Originally posted by NuAttitude NuAttitude wrote:

Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

My family doesn't have to like my so. I'm not dating them to please my family.

True, but if your SO was never invited to family vacations, picnics, events, Thanksgiving, etc.....would you go and leave your SO lonely?
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Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

Originally posted by NuAttitude NuAttitude wrote:

Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

My family doesn't have to like my so. I'm not dating them to please my family.

True, but if your SO was never invited to family vacations, picnics, events, Thanksgiving, etc.....would you go and leave your SO lonely?


I would invite my so as long as everyone is civil. But if it gets to the point where my fam and so can't be civil, he can keep his ass at home lol I would sit down with him and say, "you know done f*cked up right? Now you gotta stay home. Sorry." LOL

does this depend if i right hook your bros or if they right hook me and i body slam them?

in other words depending on who started it??
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Originally posted by miana79 miana79 wrote:

No person should have to choose bothe should be possible!! If they love him they should respect what makes him happy. I have seen so many jealous family members who are in a bad place or single so they cant be happy for others ansd  ruin relationships etc.  Jealousy and insecurity will have you hate people you dont even know!! some just hate how much  others love you. Everyone should follow their heart!!
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Originally posted by miana79 miana79 wrote:


No person should have to choose bothe should be possible!! If they love him they should respect what makes him happy. I have seen so many jealous family members who are in a bad place or single so they cant be happy for others ansd  ruin relationships etc.  Jealousy and insecurity will have you hate people you dont even know!! some just hate how much  others love you.
Everyone should follow their heart!!
what if their dislike is justified?
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There's probably something wrong if they all hate him..LOL If I really felt he was a good one, I'd bring him to a couple events, given the fam ain't talking shyt openly in his presence..if they start sending me texts at the function and evil eyes, I'd suggest we leave early..and visit his fam.  Shyt, tough cookies when nobody likes ya..I'm generally not around family that much but holidays make things difficult..
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Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

Originally posted by NuAttitude NuAttitude wrote:

Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

My family doesn't have to like my so. I'm not dating them to please my family.
True, but if your SO was never invited to family vacations, picnics, events, Thanksgiving, etc.....would you go and leave your SO lonely?


I would invite my so as long as everyone is civil. But if it gets to the point where my fam and so can't be civil, he can keep his ass at home lol I would sit down with him and say, "you know done f*cked up right? Now you gotta stay home. Sorry." LOL
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Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

Originally posted by NuAttitude NuAttitude wrote:

Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

My family doesn't have to like my so. I'm not dating them to please my family.

True, but if your SO was never invited to family vacations, picnics, events, Thanksgiving, etc.....would you go and leave your SO lonely?
Sorry afro...LOL
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Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

Originally posted by NuAttitude NuAttitude wrote:

Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

My family doesn't have to like my so. I'm not dating them to please my family.

True, but if your SO was never invited to family vacations, picnics, events, Thanksgiving, etc.....would you go and leave your SO lonely?


I would invite my so as long as everyone is civil. But if it gets to the point where my fam and so can't be civil, he can keep his ass at home lol I would sit down with him and say, "you know done f*cked up right? Now you gotta stay home. Sorry." LOL

does this depend if i right hook your bros or if they right hook me and i body slam them?

in other words depending on who started it??


It doesn't matter who started it. Your ass is staying home. I wanna enjoy my family dinners in peace LOLLOL But I would break up if there was a physical fight. My brothers are real laid back and chill and you really gotta piss them off to get them into fight mode.


My older sister is in this situation right now....my other sister throw a cup a beer in her so's face and now he can't come in the house anymore unless it's to get the baby lol

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Originally posted by sugabanana sugabanana wrote:

Chile bye!!! my family is thicker. Besides why is the family not liking the green snake in the green grass?
She has a very extensive past where she was heavy into drugs (crystal meth).  His family absolutely HATES her, but he's in love with her and caught in the middle. They have a family reunion coming up and they told him he better not bring her.Ouch 
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