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NuAttitude 
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Posted: Aug 22 2014 at 3:02pm |
My co-worker and I are having a very heated discussion. Apparently there is drama in one of my co-workers life where he has to choose between his girlfriend or his family. So the scenario: Your family hates your girlfriend and/or boyfriend, SO, fiancée. Never extends the invitation to him or her to family events, Holidays, etc..... What would you do? Would you call it quits with your partner? Or do you chuck up the deuces to your family. My answer: Love is Love and it can be Strong! But BLOOD is thicker than water!
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sugabanana
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Posted: Aug 22 2014 at 3:05pm |
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Chile bye!!! my family is thicker. Besides why is the family not liking the green snake in the green grass?
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Posted: Aug 22 2014 at 3:13pm |
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My family doesn't have to like my so. I'm not dating them to please my family.
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miana79
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Posted: Aug 22 2014 at 3:13pm |
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No person should have to choose bothe should be possible!! If they love him they should respect what makes him happy. I have seen so many jealous family members who are in a bad place or single so they cant be happy for others ansd ruin relationships etc. Jealousy and insecurity will have you hate people you dont even know!! some just hate how much others love you.
Everyone should follow their heart!!
Edited by miana79 - Aug 22 2014 at 3:20pm
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Posted: Aug 22 2014 at 3:15pm |
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I've been in this kind of situation before. She must have done something really fcuked up or he's always running back and talking about their problems, which has skewed their vision of her. Family never forgets.
Tough decision though.
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Posted: Aug 22 2014 at 3:15pm |
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If all my fam (parents and sibs) hated someone i was dating I'd have to take a step back and reflect on our relationship. Maybe it is something I'm missing. I know my family and trust their judgment but at the end if the day its my choice.
That said Im not one to integrate my bfs into my family. The last time my fam met a bf was in H.S.
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NuAttitude
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Posted: Aug 22 2014 at 3:22pm |
 sugabanana wrote:
Chile bye!!! my family is thicker. Besides why is the family not liking the green snake in the green grass? |
 Exactly!
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Posted: Aug 22 2014 at 3:23pm |
BBpants wrote:
My family doesn't have to like my so. I'm not dating them to please my family.
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True, but if your SO was never invited to family vacations, picnics, events, Thanksgiving, etc.....would you go and leave your SO lonely?
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Posted: Aug 22 2014 at 3:24pm |
NuAttitude wrote:
BBpants wrote:
My family doesn't have to like my so. I'm not dating them to please my family.
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True, but if your SO was never invited to family vacations, picnics, events, Thanksgiving, etc.....would you go and leave your SO lonely? |
no because then they would say you are turning your back on them so I would bring my partner to the events every single time!! let them know we are a package deal.
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Lady ICE
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Posted: Aug 22 2014 at 3:25pm |
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i would never break up cause my family didnt like my dude. they arent the ones dating him i am. we can do thangs by ourselves. chances is are i dont wanna be around family anyways..they lame as heck lol
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