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Originally posted by Sinnamon_Mami Sinnamon_Mami wrote:

I don't like my mom, grandmother, sister, aunt, father,or my former best friend/cousin.. These b@tches have issues...

Instead of putting up with their constant negativity, I just cut them all off...


dang...that's a lot of people....and a lot of them are women...
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One of my aunt's on my mother side...we're like oil and water
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i feel like if i wasnt family with my sisters i wouldnt have them as friends

its sad but its the truth
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As I've gotten older I've learned that many of us are related to people that we don't love. When we are young and all live under the same roof, we tend to think that we have such good relationships with family.

As you get older, start to create your own life and find your own friends you learn that in some cases, many but not ALL...but in some cases the relationship changes and honestly you become more acquaintances.  You develop your own personality, likes and dislikes and you see things in your family that you "missed" when you were young.
 
Many of my family members I would not talk to if not related.  I really see this in my husbands family when you have created a better life for yourself, family can really act funny and we cut those people back.  My life is too precious and life is to short to TRY and make people change, or make people love me, like me, accept me....I got to keep it moving....cause in the end....I'm wasting my life...and you can't ever get that TIME BACK...
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I want to come to some of y'alls family get togethers. LOL
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Originally posted by sunshine321511 sunshine321511 wrote:

As I've gotten older I've learned that many of us are related to people that we don't love. When we are young and all live under the same roof, we tend to think that we have such good relationships with family.

As you get older, start to create your own life and find your own friends you learn that in some cases, many but not ALL...but in some cases the relationship changes and honestly you become more acquaintances.  You develop your own personality, likes and dislikes and you see things in your family that you "missed" when you were young.
 
Many of my family members I would not talk to if not related.  I really see this in my husbands family when you have created a better life for yourself, family can really act funny and we cut those people back.  My life is too precious and life is to short to TRY and make people change, or make people love me, like me, accept me....I got to keep it moving....cause in the end....I'm wasting my life...and you can't ever get that TIME BACK...

every part of this is so true!
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It is Pity.. I was going to write out the reasons why but it might clue people to my identity.. But I promise it's all really good reasons..
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I love my second oldest sister.. but I don't like her.

She's horribly jealous, lies a lot, is very two-faced, and steals all. The. Time. She is known by everyone for stealing and being a two-faced pack rat. She also gossips like a kid and will be the first to insult you, no matter how wrong she is and how right you are. Dead When something happens, she'll immediately run out to everyone to tell her side to make you look like the bad person and her the victim.

I was traumatized enough growing up and living with her and although she's gone now, I actively keep a cordial distance from her. I cannot emotionally afford to be close with her because of how toxic she is. And she portrays herself like a well-put person who has her life together, but her personality and habits are just awful.
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For years, my grandmother was that person. I couldn't stand her and made no bones about it. After my grandfather passed, I felt compelled to make amends.
 
Now, that person is my great aunt - although I don't love her. I don't know her well enough, but I know I don't care for her. She's miserable, lazy, and always looking for someone (my mother) to do something for her. She hasn't done anything to help herself or her situation, but wants sympathy.
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