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    Posted: Feb 25 2014 at 8:01pm
This is gonna be long...

I am in the clinical group from hell.  Yes, I am the only black person in my nursing psych clinical.  From day one, these girls decided they didn't like our clinical instructor and they have been nothing short of disrespectful to the guy.  I mean everything from raising their voices at him, calling him out in the hallway of the hospital we're working in, rolling their eyes, or just straight up ignoring him.  It started out with one student, and one by one it trickled into this giant mean girls click.  They even went as far as to complain about him to our professor in the beginning of the semester because they said he was giving us too much work.  WTF?  Suck that shyt up and do it.  His workload was completely justifiable given that its a 5 cr course.

I was immediately put off by their behavior so I just distanced myself and remained neutral and a few weeks into clinical I realized that they were resentful of me for not joining in on their bullying.  First off, I'm black, I'm not part of your stupid clique.  Second, the instructor is old enough to be my father, I was raised to respect elders.  Third, he is our instructor, and in a position of authority so even if we don't like him we are to address him a certain way.  Last, I will not resort myself to some junior high mean girls tactic when I'm a grown ass woman, old enough to have my own children.

Fast forward to today, I was on a different unit than them because every week we take turns doing rotations somewhere else.  Anyway, when we are all meeting I notice they are particularly cold to him and not speaking much.  I thought nothing of it and was on my way home when it was over and saw them all run to the bathroom like little girls LOL.  Well I get home and there is an email from our professor saying she would like to see us after class this week to discuss our experiences.  I text one of the girls and she says the guy fell asleep while they were on the floor and they have other complaints too.

I was floored!  I have never seen this guy fall asleep in the 3 months we've been doing this rotations.  I am almost certain his eyes were just closed for a few seconds and they just jumped on the opportunity so they could sabotage him.  He works the night shift somewhere else, then drives 1.5 hrs to our clinical and stays there for another shift.  I knew they were mean girls but the fact that they could do something that would compromise his career is so evil to me. 

I wanted to defend the guy, and possibly warn him before we meet with my professor, but my bf warned me not to.  He says I'm the only black one and they could turn the tables on me, so I've decided to take his advice.  I'm just really heated right now because I just find it so unfair and mean spirited that they could do this. 

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you can't be honest when the professor questions you?
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Well hopefully this blemish will be the first or atleast unusually abnormal considering his normal student evaluations. It is a shame that they would chose to be so evil and possibly ruin someone else's livelihood. To top it off their trying to become professionals in a field where ethics are important.
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I would tell ruining lives aint the business the economy to tough for all that.
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They dislike him for no reason at all? Are you sure there is no back story? Is the professor a minority? What's really going on?LOL


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Originally posted by cvzx cvzx wrote:

Well hopefully this blemish will be the first or atleast unusually abnormal considering his normal student evaluations. It is a shame that they would chose to be so evil and possibly ruin someone else's livelihood. To top it off their trying to become professionals in a field where ethics are important.


I don't want to be the odd person out.  My bf basically said if they are crafty enough sabotage faculty, then imagine what they can do to a fellow student.  He says if I say anything at all, it should be after I've received my grade for the class.  I don't know...
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Originally posted by juniper angel juniper angel wrote:

I would tell ruining lives aint the business the economy to tough for all that.


Okay!  Like this additional job might be how he is keeping up with his mortgage or putting his child through school.  You don't mess with people's money like that, unless they are truly messing up. Him shutting his eyes for a few seconds did not put you or a patient in harms way, so why report him?  That's the only thing that upsets me is that this might mess him up for future semesters.
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I've experienced white girls/women behaving in this manner for no apparent reason at all. Their sneaky and tend to be some of the most malicious little creatures. Then they have the nerve to play the victim role when you morally stand up for yourself.

OP-I completely under your concern, and you wanting to give your professor the heads up. But I think you made the right decision by choosing to stay out of it

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Originally posted by cvzx cvzx wrote:

Well hopefully this blemish will be the first or atleast unusually abnormal considering his normal student evaluations. It is a shame that they would chose to be so evil and possibly ruin someone else's livelihood. To top it off their trying to become professionals in a field where ethics are important.


This is his first time working as a clinical instructor for this campus, so he's basically screwed if the professor takes their complains seriously.  That's why I feel bad for him.  When the semester is over, I will pull him aside and advise him to assert himself more in future clinicals and contact his supervisor if he senses and future issues may arise.  He didn't play good defense with these girls.


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Originally posted by uppitynegroid uppitynegroid wrote:

Originally posted by cvzx cvzx wrote:

Well hopefully this blemish will be the first or atleast unusually abnormal considering his normal student evaluations. It is a shame that they would chose to be so evil and possibly ruin someone else's livelihood. To top it off their trying to become professionals in a field where ethics are important.


I don't want to be the odd person out.  My bf basically said if they are crafty enough sabotage faculty, then imagine what they can do to a fellow student.  He says if I say anything at all, it should be after I've received my grade for the class.  I don't know...


That would definitely bother me too, I'm not down with the bs of playing with people's life cause I have a thirst for power. However your boyfriend is right and believe me your teacher isn't going to get fired bc of their statement. Chances are high that he had probably unofficially mentioned their behavior in passing with other faculty. Not to mention these bitches probably didn't just wake up this clinicals and decide to act bitchy, they probably have treated other teachers that way in the too.

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