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I wonder if Eddie leaked the solange videoErmm
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Originally posted by JamCaygirl JamCaygirl wrote:

I wonder if Eddie leaked the solange videoErmm


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Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

I believe everyone should have the right to know whom theyre getting involved with. Not all are forthcoming with the info. Some for safety reasons others for selfish reasons. That said I don't know of many many men who ask about a womans birth gender upon meeting. Doubt many naturally born women would be able pleased with the question.


yes that would be weird if A new guy would be like were you born a Woman? Id be offended "like WTF you mean?" lol
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Too much political correctness up in here. For a transsexual not to self disclose to a person he plans on getting involved with knowing full well that the person in question is heterosexual is serious mental abuse. I would have the right to resent being set up like that. A lie by omission is still a lie. Nothing against transsexuals. Live your life and be happy being who you choose to be. Just don't impose your issue on unsuspecting folks. That is FUCCED UP.
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My point is it's rather hypocritical of us to perpetuate oppressive environments when we clearly haven't escaped our own and detest it.

Do you need to like transsexuals? No. But at least accept them as fellow humans and treat them as such. I'm sure they have enough to deal with. Feeling like you were born in the wrong body must be tough.

Here my cisgender ass is completely fine with being female (well except when I'm menstruating LOL) but then these people question their identity based on gender and want to go through the invasive process of changing their physical components to meet the gender their mind says. That sh*t must be tough.

Just as race doesn't invalidate one's humanity, gender- trans or not, does not invalidate one's humanity. Trans people are out here dying simply for being trans and not the trickery some of you automatically default to as some sort of justification.

And please, enough of the complaints about "being PC," it sounds like a Huffington Post comment section in here. That's not a good thing.
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Everything is offensive.
Asking a person when was the last time they've been tested and do they have STDs is offensive. Asking a man if he's ever had sex with another man is offensive
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How am I perpetuating oppressive environments only because I choose to not be involved with a transgendered man and want him to self-disclose to me before we go any further? What relationship can survive without honesty and be built on deception? If you as a transgender get with a heterosexual person and decide not to disclose your status, you are being deceptive and you are removing the free will of the other person to CHOOSE to be in a relationship with you or not. The same goes with a homosexual man who decides to use me knowing full well he is gay just because he's afraid to face his own fears of lack of acceptance in the world. Own your shyt proudly and don't hide behind others to get along. I'm sorry that homophobia and transphobia exist. I'm sorry that we are still in a society that won't let these people live their lives. That doesn't mean I'm willing to relinquish my right to self-determination. No one has the right to put that on me. And I'm not going to be shamed for wanting what I want in an intimate relationship. Self-disclose. We'll remain friends. Just don't force me in a situation I don't want to be into and then make me bear the brunt of a complicated social issue. I have the right to not be coerced into a situation that is potentially psychologically damaging to me. The same way the transgendered person has a right to preserve himself, I want to preserve myself too. How about my free will?


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Originally posted by JoliePoufiasse JoliePoufiasse wrote:

How am I perpetuating oppressive environments only because I choose to not be involved with a transgendered man and want him to self-disclose to me before we go any further? What relationship can survive without honesty and be built on deception? If you as a transgender get with a heterosexual person and decide not to disclose your status, you are being deceptive and you are removing the free will of the other person to CHOOSE to be in a relationship with you or not. The same goes with a homosexual man who decides to use me knowing full well he is gay just because he's afraid to face his own fears of lack of acceptance in the world. Own your shyt proudly and don't hide behind others to get along. I'm sorry that homophobia and transphobia exist. I'm sorry that we are still in a society that won't let these people live their lives. That doesn't mean I'm willing to relinquish my right to self-determination. No one has the right to put that on me. And I'm not going to be shamed for wanting what I want in an intimate relationship. Self-disclose. We'll remain friends. Just don't force me in a situation I don't want to be into and then make me bear the brunt of a complicated social issue. I have the right to not be coerced into a situation that is potentially psychologically damaging to me. The same way the transgendered person has a right to preserve himself, I want to preserve myself too. How about my free will?





+1. Transgendered people are human too, and violence against them is deplorable. But if I find out someone I'm dating is transgendered and in 'hiding', I won't commit violence against them (they should not be harmed physically at all), but I won't stay with them due to my preference of being with a cisgendered person. It's not even about deception...it's about having the right to choose whether to date a TG person. Hiding one's baby pictures, cutting themselves off from people who knew them in their past life is drastic and people have the right to know what situation they're dealing with upfront.

Sorry that they're dealing with the struggle of being TG, but potential love interests should know for transparency purposes. That relationship is not built on trust if someone's hiding their entire past.
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Just discussing TG in general...interesting convo...more interesting than the Eddie situation, which isn't a surprise.
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it started on page 5 when this was posted 

Originally posted by Samoneisthebest Samoneisthebest wrote:

I don't see why a man would be mad about a relationship with a m2f transexual. The only thing they would have to work out is having children. And there are plenty of ways around that.

Then people went off either defending them or going against them.
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