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    Posted: Jan 13 2011 at 5:56pm
Why is that a woman can be putting it down giving a man everything he need plus more.I mean SExually,Mentally,Emotionally but he still go cheat on her whats up that. Can any fellas speak on this.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 13 2011 at 5:58pm
It's called self-interest. There is no incentive for him not to do it. Especially if you are dumb enough to poke and prod, stay longer to try and change him or figure him out.

Leave. Find someone who is compatible with you.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 13 2011 at 5:59pm
Originally posted by TOUSHA11 TOUSHA11 wrote:

Why is that a woman can be putting it down giving a man everything he need plus more.I mean SExually,Mentally,Emotionally but he still go cheat on her whats up that. Can any fellas speak on this.
It's not what she does

You can give me all I want, but if my mentality isn't to be with you

Then I am not going to be with you
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 13 2011 at 5:59pm
the relationship becomes routine, he wants variety? hes beenn condishoned to be a cheater? thats all i got
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 14 2011 at 1:40am
Originally posted by K_legendzz K_legendzz wrote:

Originally posted by TOUSHA11 TOUSHA11 wrote:

Why is that a woman can be putting it down giving a man everything he need plus more.I mean SExually,Mentally,Emotionally but he still go cheat on her whats up that. Can any fellas speak on this.
It's not what she does

You can give me all I want, but if my mentality isn't to be with you

Then I am not going to be with you
This and or greed
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 14 2011 at 12:59pm
A man that does what u mentioned OP has low self esteem and need to be with various women to validate who they areStern Smile
They're confused and don't know what they want.
A man who has self respect would be straight up from the gate instead of being disingenious.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 14 2011 at 1:21pm
OP spelled "eating" incorrectly.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 14 2011 at 6:29pm
because no matter what you do, new coochie is always better than a good long term woman
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Dec 28 2014 at 7:14pm
Originally posted by K_legendzz K_legendzz wrote:

Originally posted by TOUSHA11 TOUSHA11 wrote:

Why is that a woman can be putting it down giving a man everything he need plus more.I mean SExually,Mentally,Emotionally but he still go cheat on her whats up that. Can any fellas speak on this.
It's not what she does

You can give me all I want, but if my mentality isn't to be with you

Then I am not going to be with you


I think this is the best answer to the question posed.
Women feel that they failed on something when the guy cheats, or get confused when she was good to him, but they fail to realize that maybe the guy was just not that into them.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 23 2015 at 8:19am
I say because they (the ones that want their cake & eat it too) are all full of DOODOO! I think they don't know how to value a woman, so therefor they flee (and fxx with these h***)....and best believe the grass ain't greener on the other side so they will regret it. I honestly don't think any guy is faithful, and I believe all men are dogs. FLAT OUT....please prove me wrong, or maybe I need to look into maybe some christian brothas or christians of any race for that matter....could they be any different? 

UGGGGGH! Lol
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