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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 30 2013 at 10:03pm
 
I cut off folks regularly.
But then again im a virgo.
 
 
Matter fact in 2013 I dont even attach myself to new folks until after a probation period to see who im dealing with.
 
That way if were not compatible, no sweat we werent friends to begin with.LOL
 
 
I have let people go because either
a.) bad character/ couldnt trust them
b.) tried to mooch/take advantage of my kindness
c.) dramatic and drama filled
d.) has too many personal issues/ being around them always brought my mood down
e.) lazy and un-motivated/ couch potatoes
 
 
Its always one of those ^^^^
 
The friends I do have are certified and ride or die, love them.Embarrassed
Keep your circle small, and keep your problems/drama smaller.Wink
 
 


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 30 2013 at 10:05pm
Originally posted by niecy niecy wrote:

Yes. Kept up too much drama that I didn't want to be bothered with.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 30 2013 at 10:29pm
Yes! One was toxic and I didn't trust her.
 
The other one was just lazy, still acted like we were in high school and refused to be an adult. Her stories never added up.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 30 2013 at 10:47pm
not really--oh wait yes. one. it hurt. but tis for the best i guess.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 30 2013 at 10:50pm
yup.. plenty. 

i cut people off from time to time. 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 30 2013 at 10:54pm
Yeah. I didnt like them anymore.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 30 2013 at 10:54pm
yes...if you lie to me that means i can trust you so you are out!!!
and also if you dont bring nothing positive in my life i dont need you around
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 30 2013 at 10:57pm
We've grown apart but I've never dumped a friend.

I did dump a cousin. My parents told me I wasn't allowed to associate with her or her parents anymore. They were really toxic and didn't like to see other people do well. 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 30 2013 at 11:24pm
I had to. She was my ace, my g, my ride or die. But maintaining a friendship with her was exhausting. Hurt me to my heart, but I had to let her go, and I truly feel it was for the best.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 30 2013 at 11:48pm
I dumped my best friend of 10+ years. I never thought that it would come to this but we are just two different people that no longer share the same interest. I love her dearly and miss her but if is what it is. She's has pushed a lot of our friends away. She needs to find he self-esteem and her peace.
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