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Originally posted by NJHairLuv NJHairLuv wrote:

Tell them. I let a bish know in a calm, non confrontational manner and i sleep good at night. if it is someone i dont respect, i ghost out.

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Most likely, they know what they did... so no explanation unless asked. The way Im asked is how I'll answer. I always start with... "Btch... you know what you did" tho.

Ive known this one girl for 15yrs... cut off. No explanation until she asked... with an attitude. So I answered... with an attitude. If what you did requires ghost mode- Im gone. Dont care who
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dang, I don't know if I'd sleep good /well if I had to break up with one of my close friends. They know too much.


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JP, right. I imagine that would feel like a death.
An ex coworker/pal told me about her longtime close friend who just ghost'ed on her with no explanation. And refused to take her calls or speak to her again. She said ex-GF also revealed GF secrets to other people after the friendship ended.


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Been on both ends as well. The people I dropped, they know why I dropped them. They were being jealous, nasty and trying to undermine me. So I didn't feel the need to go into a long drawn out explanation as to why I'm no longer associating with them.

Being dumped by someone you considered a friend and that you treated like a sister, never did anything slimy to her, that hurts though. I'm a loyal person. Don't keep many friends but the ones I have I cherish.

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The combo, JP, is why I didnt explain. I was like number 1, she was like number 2 so... btch- you know what you did I dont owe you anything
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Originally posted by JoliePoufiasse JoliePoufiasse wrote:

Been on both ends as well. The people I dropped, they know why I dropped them. They were being jealous, nasty and trying to undermine me. So I didn't feel the need to go into a long drawn out explanation as to why I'm no longer associating with them.

Being dumped by someone you considered a friend and that you treated like a sister, never did anything slimy to her, that hurts though. I'm a loyal person. Don't keep many friends but the ones I have I cherish.

yes, it does.
I just went through that last summer.

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If I feel disrespected, I'll drop you in a heartbeat. I'll miss you but I have no tolerance for disrespect now.
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If they're a true close friend, I don't cut them off entirely. I will fall back for a bit though. Usually when they're life is too messy and full of drama. I don't want to hear about that sh*t Everytime we talk, so I phase out. Eventually things always go back to normal in a few months or a year.

My best friend of 10+ years is full of bad decisions. But I Love her like a sister and try my hardest not to judge. When her life gets too crazy, I just take a break from her.
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I'm going through this now.  When my "best friend" was down and out I was there. But now I get all the excuses in the world.  I'm just letting it phase on out.  You never know who your true friends are until you're in a situation.
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