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Originally posted by NARSAddict NARSAddict wrote:

My issue is women not wearing clothes that complement their shape.  I recognize that folks want to be trendy and feel great about their body and what not
 
I agree.
 
Wear your pom pom shorts but wear them in your size. There is a lady on my youngest son soccer team and she wears clothes are are at least 2 sizes too small.
 
It makes her look worse because it accentuates her flaws rather than compliment them. She has that typical Mexican shape of a large stomach and small legs but she is always wearing low rise cuts shorts and jeans so it makes her stomach area look even larger, her muffin top is out of control. If she wore a high rise jeans/shorts she would look so much better.
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Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

I do love the idea of people going back to the style of dress in the early 60s. Everyone was clean and took pride in their looks. However, I love being free to dress as I want and I really don't care about being judged for it. If I wanna wear coochie cutters I will. I've become more confident going bra less lately.   
This. When I do decide to step out after hours..club..lounge..etc..I really could give two fukks. There is a time and place for everything.
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sh*t...my body is in its prime right now. I aint covering up sh*t!


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Well, I've been saying this for years.

 

The way you dress speaks volumes about who you are.Sick

 

You are never gonna see people like Condi Rice or Michelle Obama showing everything God gave them. People will think they are cheap and will treat them that way and then they are gonna be insulted and start shouting about how it doesn't matter how you are dressed - it's who you are on the inside.

 

Yes, and that is my point.

 

The clothes you CHOOSE to wear, tells people exactly who you are - sends a message loud and clear. How come men can read this message … but women can’t?

 

My father used to tell me to always look, act and dress like a lady because guys do not have to respect you no matter what you wear. That is MORE than naive. Grow up.

 

So if you are showing everything, it leaves nothing to the imagination for men and they will think you are ADVERTIZING. It looks like attention seeking, desperate behavior like you've got daddy issues and whatnot and just want a man .. any man.

 

I repeat .. the way you choose to dress tells everyone you encounter EXACTLY what's going on with you on the INSIDE. 

 

If you look bananas Wacko  on the outside ... that is what you are like on the inside no matter how much you deny it.



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My favorite thing to wear is booty shorts and a tank top. It is the end of July and I live at the very bottom of Alabama this heat and humidity aint nothing to eff with.

I'm effing 22 years old. Yall can get on with that covering up mess for at least another 3 years.

BTW, I have yet to be disrespected.  
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Originally posted by Printer_Ink Printer_Ink wrote:

Well, I've been saying this for years.

 

The way you dress speaks volumes about who you are.Sick

 

You are never gonna see people like Condi Rice or Michelle Obama showing everything God gave them. People will think they are cheap and will treat them that way and then they are gonna be insulted and start shouting about how it doesn't matter how you are dressed - it's who you are on the inside.

 

Yes, and that is my point.

 

The clothes you CHOOSE to wear, tells people exactly who you are - sends a message loud and clear. How come men can read this message … but women can’t?

 

My father used to tell me to always look, act and dress like a lady because guys do not have to respect you no matter what you wear. That is MORE than naive. Grow up.

 

So if you are showing everything, it leaves nothing to the imagination for men and they will think you are ADVERTIZING. It looks like attention seeking, desperate behavior like you've got daddy issues and whatnot and just want a man .. any man.

 

I repeat .. the way you choose to dress tells everyone you encounter EXACTLY what's going on with you on the INSIDE. 

 

If you look bananas Wacko  on the outside ... that is what you are like on the inside no matter how much you deny it.


I completely agree. And im sure people are going to chime in with the "dont judge a book by its cover, yada yada"...but the cover is all I have. 
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If I can find some shorts to cover all this ass, y'all can too... 

I usually wear what my husband likesStern Smile


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Originally posted by HunnyB HunnyB wrote:

If I can find some shorts to cover all this ass, y'all can too... 

I usually wear what my husband likesStern Smile



it's not about finding clothes that fit, it's about how you look in said clothing. 

All my shorts cover my ass, but unless I'm wearing men's basketball shorts, these nice women would probably refer to me as "fast" because of how I look in them. 
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wait wasnt this thread almost 20 pages yesterday?

what hapint?
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Originally posted by **Sk!TtLeS B** **Sk!TtLeS B** wrote:

Originally posted by HunnyB HunnyB wrote:

If I can find some shorts to cover all this ass, y'all can too... 

I usually wear what my husband likesStern Smile



it's not about finding clothes that fit, it's about how you look in said clothing. 

All my shorts cover my ass, but unless I'm wearing men's basketball shorts, these nice women would probably refer to me as "fast" because of how I look in them. 

Understandable...

I was more so talking about Morena bc she's a really small girl..so she can find some shortsLOL

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