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    Posted: Sep 06 2013 at 9:30pm
There'a a lot of talk online about black women not wanting people to touch their natural hair. But I'm a hair toucher, and I've never encountered any resistance in real life when asking to touch people's hair. I personally have never had a white person ask to touch my hair, but for those who have, are white people the only ones not allowed to touch your hair? And if so, why?
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Originally posted by liesnalibis liesnalibis wrote:

There'a a lot of talk online about black women not wanting people to touch their natural hair. But I'm a hair toucher, and I've never encountered any resistance in real life when asking to touch people's hair. I personally have never had a white person ask to touch my hair, but for those who have, are white people the only ones not allowed to touch your hair? And if so, why?
 
Nope, not just whites...anyone rude enough to touch my hair/any other body part with their (clean? unclean?) hands without asking first is crossing my personal boundary. If they ask, I might ask them 'why' beforehand lol...an uncommon request imo.


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Originally posted by liesnalibis liesnalibis wrote:

I personally have never had a white person ask to touch my hair, but for those who have, are white people the only ones not allowed to touch your hair? And if so, why?
1) often people that want to touch my hair didn't ask, they just reached at me. not cool.

2) when it comes to not touching my hair, it's a general rule. why? because i don't want them to. and frankly? that's enough. take the "no" and keep moving on with your life. 

but since we live in a society that thinks people owe them explanations: my personal space isn't to be treated trivially because people can't control themselves or their curiosity got the better of them. i'm not here to satisfy people-- let alone ones i don't even know.  i don't owe anyone my personal security and, possibly self, respect/esteem. 

my body belongs to me and to attempt to break that boundary will be done at that person's own risk. point. blank. 
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lmao Neka, I love that avi.

OP, I don't want anyone touching my hair without permission.   Even if someone asks, I think it's odd an odd request.  
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no one is allowed to touch me or my hair.
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Originally posted by K_Camille K_Camille wrote:

lmao Neka, I love that avi.
thank you, k_camille. 

that's prazol's work from a past mafia game.  
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Nobody.....should invading anyone personal space without permission. My reflexes are on point so unwelcome approach made towards my hair or body is met with my reflex...A SLAPPPPPPPP
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Wow...rough crowd. I've never met any people like you guys in real life.
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It is not a black-white thing. I don't like people of any color to put their paws on me. I don't know whether they have just been scratching their snatch or picking their nose. People are nasty.
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I just don't see why people would want to touch a stranger's hair? I can see a friend or a significant other but a stranger? That's too weird to me Confused
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