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Why does every discussion on this site have to resort to a "what is black" debate.
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Originally posted by NJHairLuv NJHairLuv wrote:

Originally posted by AmiliaCabral AmiliaCabral wrote:

nah

 
before my grandma died, she told me to marry a white man
 
 

My granny is 96 and said that when she was 14 someone that she respected sat her down and told her that she needs to marry a white man because it is 'easier'. My aunt is in her mid-80s and she and her husband were an anchor couple in our family that we all viewed as having an ideal marriage. she recently told my mom that if she could do it over, she would marry a white man, said that if my uncle dies first, he next man will be white because 'it is easier' and told my mom to tell me to marry a white manLOL

Im not attracted to non-ethnic white men, but I am into 'other' so I know that my husband will have to be from 'the old country' kinda non-black or a good ole black gentleman.
 
 
 
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My Aint Minnie (yes Aint) and I were watching Ricki Lake one day and the subject was interacial dating and she tole me this story while we were alone. She said she was seeing this white man back in the day when she was in her late 20's.  Treated her crazy good. Cared for her and her damn kids. Took care of everybody. She said she let fams talk her out of continuing to see him because he was white.  She said she never regretted anything in her life as much as she did letting that man go.  "NewD" she said "if u end up with a white man or any other type of man and he treats u like u supposed to be treated...don't let family or society whisper in your ear.  You don't want to end up like me." She said she ain't had a black man treat her like that white man did since.  She is now in her late 70's and she still remembers that man with regret.


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i take it I wont see any of ya'll on YT with a white husband tag, yes?
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Originally posted by Majesty02 Majesty02 wrote:

Originally posted by AshBash89 AshBash89 wrote:

@Majesty
African-American is an ethnicity, our nationality is American.


Well according to Wikipedia and Merriam-Webster dictionary its a nationality. Stop playing devils advocate. I could care less wheter u claim AA as your nationality or ethnicity. Your still an African American Black American whatever you chose to call yourself.(shruggs shoulders)


AA isnt an ethnicity. the white man turning ya'll brain to soupLOL


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The people that say marry white because its easier aren't even speaking from experience thoWacko
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Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

if you're from the west Indies you should be able to relate to Detroit.

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I actually laughed at this. Your actually somewhat right. Lol
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*get's to page 8*
 
 
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Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

The people that say marry white because its easier aren't even speaking from experience thoWacko

still stuck on what they mean by "easier"... though? easier to comb the kids 3c hair?....Wacko
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Originally posted by nekamarie83 nekamarie83 wrote:

Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

you cant take all that length neka

stop fronting
Oh yeah? Make me.   
 
 
 
oh my GAWD i'm so nasty. LOL  I read this so wroooooong...
 
 
*takes mind out of gutter and rinses it off*
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Originally posted by newdiva1 newdiva1 wrote:

Originally posted by nekamarie83 nekamarie83 wrote:

Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

you cant take all that length neka

stop fronting
Oh yeah? Make me.   

 
 
 
oh my GAWD i'm so nasty. LOL  I read this so wroooooong...
 
 
*takes mind out of gutter and rinses it off*

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