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No. My heart is color blind. I look for qualities more important to me than color.
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I only deal with POC 

...anything but white

yeuck...I don't even find them attractive so I definitely couldn't marry oneDead


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Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

you cant take all that length neka

stop fronting
Oh yeah? Make me.   
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I've dated black and i've dated white... I have had problems with both! My ex black boyfriend grew up in a single mother household and didn't understand the importance or marriage since he never saw it. His family was ghetto, he had goals but never really tried hard to accomplish anything, smh. I will say he was a gentlemen, took me on nice dates and had my back no matter what. He would've loved me no matter what. The problem is love isn't always enough...  I needed someone with more motivation... 

The white man... Crazy and selfish. He was SO much fun and could always make me laugh. When he was in a good mood he was the man of my dreams. But he expected me to do his laundry, clean his house, etc. He had a very short temper and would always threaten to break up with me over the littlest things. He also tries to get back with me making him a potential cheater (hes now dating a submissive woman). I realized that I deserved more and left him alone.

Im dating a great black guy now that comes from a 2 parent household, has a good job, and is always taking me out! My friends and family love him and I think he could be "the one". The problem... He is younger than me and i've never dated a younger guy. Im 28 (turning 29) hes 24. I would like marry in the next few years and im scared he won't be ready. If we do get married im scared he'll think he made a mistake because he got married to young. 
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No, he dooesn't. 
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to get me, yes
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He doesn't have to be black, but I absolutely disagree about marrying non-black being easier.  It's not.  In many ways, it can be much, much harder.
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Originally posted by oneluv oneluv wrote:

I've dated black and i've dated white... I have had problems with both! My ex black boyfriend grew up in a single mother household and didn't understand the importance or marriage since he never saw it. His family was ghetto, he had goals but never really tried hard to accomplish anything, smh. I will say he was a gentlemen, took me on nice dates and had my back no matter what. He would've loved me no matter what. The problem is love isn't always enough...  I needed someone with more motivation... 

The white man... Crazy and selfish. He was SO much fun and could always make me laugh. When he was in a good mood he was the man of my dreams. But he expected me to do his laundry, clean his house, etc. He had a very short temper and would always threaten to break up with me over the littlest things. He also tries to get back with me making him a potential cheater (hes now dating a submissive woman). I realized that I deserved more and left him alone.

Im dating a great black guy now that comes from a 2 parent household, has a good job, and is always taking me out! My friends and family love him and I think he could be "the one". The problem... He is younger than me and i've never dated a younger guy. Im 28 (turning 29) hes 24. I would like marry in the next few years and im scared he won't be ready. If we do get married im scared he'll think he made a mistake because he got married to young. 




Maybe you should make a spinoff thread about seriously dating a younger man in his 20s, some people may have some experience with that. I think everyone is different and plenty of men get married young. But to be honest I'd be nervous too if I were you.

I was going to make one about nelly's side piece the hackard dating a 24 year old basketball player when she she should stop playing & get her evelyn on asap.
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my hub is younger.  He was in his early 20s when he got married.
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Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

You picked the wrong man, but wanna blame it on race?
FOH and don't disrespect my black men again.

this is why we're going on vacation Hug

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