Please let me know what you think.
I will make it short.
We move 8 months ago in a new city and have met new people. I have a 5 yo daughter is is trying for the second child.
We live in a neighborhood with few blacks. There is 1 couple that we met since we moved here. They have 3 kids and my daughter bound with their equal 5 yo daughter.
Unfortunately the husband is in jail and the wife is taking care of the kids alone.
She has started coming to our house more frequently mostly to pick up her daughter or to drop mine etc....
I go to school so my hubby spends most of the time with my daughter. He dropped her at her house too for her to play etc...since she is only child and sometimes lonely.
Recently we were invited to a party and my hubby told me that he met her outside her house ( they live 2 houses away) and she told him that she heard that he will be her date at the party....I found it weird but ignore it. Everytime she comes to my house, the FIRST question she asked is if my husband is at home.
Last week she was at my house and we drank wine and were talking lout etc...I got so uncomfortable when I saw her touching my husband's arm...because he was talking and she needed him to listen to her. I didn't know what to react
since we were all half drunk etc....so I attributed that to the wine.
My husband always go to costco and Sam's club etc...and EVERYTIME she asked him to bring either cake, ice cream etc...for her. I went to her house last week and she was eating icecream. When I asked her if she went shopping, she told me that my husband brought it to her from shopping.
Now I want so much my daughter to have someone to play with ( since she always asked to go their house to play with the other girl and sometimes cry when I refused).
Today, she texted me that I should text her my hubby phone number and I didn't even reply to her text.
I told my hubby and he told me that he dropped my daughter there today to play and maybe that lady wanted him to buy something from the store for her. I think she is exagerating. When I told my hubby that, I won't give her his # and that I don't think that buying her stuff at the store everyday is appropriate ( the problem is not the money but the attention and gestures ), he told me that I am childish and is not talking to me anymore.Ladies what would you do if you were me
Thanks a lot for your time.