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 Posted: May 10 2014 at 2:37pm |
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leftywefty
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Posted: May 10 2014 at 2:59pm |
yes, and I am. My parents have been married for almost 30 yrs….grandparents 50 yrs..it's all I know. Not everyone likes the title of marriage, but I believe most people ultimately want a partner whom they can rely on for love, support, and companionship. That structure is also very important for the social and emotional development of children. Kids need to see loving relationships….whether thats a long term boy/girlfriend, a lesbian/gay couple, or a hetero married couple…
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Posted: May 10 2014 at 4:36pm |
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To be honest... if I saw kids in my future... I'd probably be more interested in Marriage. |
we got married in spite of this
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Posted: May 10 2014 at 5:08pm |
leftywefty wrote:
yes, and I am. My parents have been married for almost 30 yrs….grandparents 50 yrs..it's all I know. Not everyone likes the title of marriage, but I believe most people ultimately want a partner whom they can rely on for love, support, and companionship. That structure is also very important for the social and emotional development of children. Kids need to see loving relationships….whether thats a long term boy/girlfriend, a lesbian/gay couple, or a hetero married couple…
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Posted: May 10 2014 at 5:12pm |
OoDles O wrote:
To be honest... if I saw kids in my future... I'd probably be more interested in Marriage. |
this is me
i dont believe in raising kids outside of a marriage...
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Posted: May 10 2014 at 5:31pm |
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funny different women have made me want kids whilst others have left me with no desires to sire kids
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Posted: May 10 2014 at 5:38pm |
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funny different women have made me want kids whilst others have left me with no desires to sire kids
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bhm extremes/all out of left field interpretation: what are you saying, that my husband doesn't love me because he doesn't want to have kids with me?
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The idea of marriage is something I am beginning to look forward to less and less mostly out of fear of divorce. I'm not in a rush to get married like I used to be because I realized I only wanted it because of the wedding.
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Posted: May 10 2014 at 6:40pm |
leftywefty wrote:
yes, and I am. My parents have been married for almost 30 yrs….grandparents 50 yrs..it's all I know. |
pretty much this.
never even thought of not getting married
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