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First I will say that many black women do not embrace their own darker skinned sisters, but yet they are critical of "others". Just let your favorite celebrity marry a darker skinned or even brown skin woman and you all take to the forums and call her "basic" smh. So start loving your own darker skin and the world will take notice. The same way whites put having blonde hair and blue eyes on a pedestal, black folks could do the same, so many of us have our own prejudices against dark skin women. Many black women are delusional about their own complexion.  For example I spent many years working as a professional make up artist, I learned early on that I could not allow my black clients to see the shade of foundation I was putting on them, because to often we got comments such as, "I am not that darK!" or "That is to dark". So I made sure to hold my custom blending palette in a position that they could not see the foundation until after it was applied ......Kelly Rowland is not more successful due to the fact that she is not that talented, she is a back up singer, point blank. She is the Mary Wilson of this day. Her voice is very average, she is pretty but she has no other "it" factor to be a huge star......Sad that some feel Brandy is not huge, because she is. She has won awards, one of the few young black girls to have her own sitcom and after all these years in the industry, black and white people still know her by her first name. She is a big star by many standards.....You all fuss about Beyonce and Rhi, but regardless of their skin tone these two ladies are talented and have a "wow" factor, they deserve their status. Say what you want about Rhi but from Jay Z to LA Reid they have said she was a star from the moment she walked into the office, she just had it.........For the entertainment industry I consider anyone my complexion and darker to be dark skinned. We have had plenty of singing stars who are darker skinned and mainstream and many actresses who are darker skinned and mainstream. And yes Diana Ross is considered darker skinned by industry standards, but she has the "it" factor and she shines on screen. Motown had plenty of dark skinned singers who were huge........ Jodi Watley, Anita Baker were huge in their time, both a darker brown. Aretha Franklin is dark brown she still gets respect today! Actually most of the singers were brown skin in between. Whitney looks brown skin on camera but irl she was much lighter. That is another point, you have to know how to use correct lighting for black folks on film to get a true complexion. You will be surprised how much lighter some of them are in person..... Oprah always praises her light people because she says they do such a good job on her, by industry standards she is darker brown.....So it is not about white features are skin tone, it does come down to talent that will keep you in the limelight and push you towards superstar success. Beyonce is just talented, there has not been an artists male or female that can give a performance they way she can in the past 10 years, whether her complexion is light or dark, she would of been successful.....Gabby Union and Aisha Taylor both constantly praised by the industry for their beauty, both of these ladies are dark skin to me. You do not have to be blue black to be dark skin. I consider myself dark skin.....So let us start embracing and praising our darker skinned big nose sisters more then maybe we can point a finger at "others". Look at how many of you are critical of Rhi Rhi's nose, like what is the deal with that? Why do you have an issue with her nose? You have issues with it but expect "others" to not have an issue with it? Come on black women.
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NS? AP? Who are these people?

Originally posted by purple.chuckz purple.chuckz wrote:

 Yes, Mama Tina could have said all of that, but Kelly definitely saw the way people responded and treated light-skinned Beyonce compared to herself. 

 I am reminded of Nina Simone's quote regarding Michael Jackson.  I understand he bleached his skin because of vitiligo, but the multiple nose jobs and plastic surgery....

NS: Yes, greed has driven the world crazy. And I think I'm lucky that I have a place over here that I can call home. It's no surprise that Michael Jackson, the man that I adore the most in this world, has disappeared from the United STates. I distinctly remember meeting Michael on a plane many years ago when he was little, and I said to him, "Don't let them change you. You're black and you're beautiful." But of course, ha was influenced by his family and everybody else. And I don't mind if you say this, I think that the person who's responsible for Michael's tragedy is Quincy Jones [who co-produced his albums Thriller and Bad]. You can quote me. 

AP: How is he responsible? 
NS: It was Quincy who married a girl from Sweden [Oolah]. And with Quincy with all them white women, poor little Michael didn't know what to do. Michael needed somebody to emulate, and I think he did everything that Quincy Jones told him to do. That is what I believe. 

AP: Does Quincy Jones know you feel this way? 
NS: No, I don't think he knows. 


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NS=Nina Simone I think...

Originally posted by Alias_Avi Alias_Avi wrote:



NS? AP? Who are these people?

Originally posted by purple.chuckz purple.chuckz wrote:

 Yes, Mama Tina could have said all of that, but Kelly definitely saw the way people responded and treated light-skinned Beyonce compared to herself. 

 I am reminded of Nina Simone's quote regarding Michael Jackson.  I understand he bleached his skin because of vitiligo, but the multiple nose jobs and plastic surgery....

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AP: How is he responsible? 
NS: It was Quincy who married a girl from Sweden [Oolah]. And with Quincy with all them white women, poor little Michael didn't know what to do. Michael needed somebody to emulate, and I think he did everything that Quincy Jones told him to do. That is what I believe. 

AP: Does Quincy Jones know you feel this way? 
NS: No, I don't think he knows. 
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NS is right

Every man that Michael looked up to was weak in the knees for White women (Quincy Jones, James Brown... I wonder if Jackie Wilson was)

Young Black men are so impressionable and thirsty for direction. I can see how that was so for Michael with his family dynamics not being the best

But I think, even more than being attracted to White women, Michael wanted to be around people who were child stars or former child stars. Of course at his time, most of them were gonna be White. But he clearly had issues of self-loathing pertaining to his race
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well....they were weak for white women but they did not change their physical appearance. why did he change his?
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IA with veemack on what she said about Kelly.
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Originally posted by babyk94 babyk94 wrote:

IA with veemack on what she said about Kelly.


You read all that........Shocked
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Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

well....they were weak for white women but they did not change their physical appearance. why did he change his?


For sure...there was something mentally going on with Michael. He started doing nose jobs BEFORE the Pepsi fire which supposedly was the start of his skin problems.

Just because you marry/date out of your race doesn't mean you suddenly do a massive "tear down" on your exterior to match the race you're dating.
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Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:


Originally posted by babyk94 babyk94 wrote:

IA with veemack on what she said about Kelly.


You read all that........Shocked
LOL haha yeah
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Originally posted by babyk94 babyk94 wrote:

IA with veemack on what she said about Kelly.


I disagree only in that, Kelly has so much more potential if she'd stop trying to be another pop starlet. She can do dance/house music tracks as the arrangements are so much more complimentary (and the receptive audience is much larger than just the US or the AA community) but she keeps trying to compete with Beyonce in the pop/r&b segment and so she stays looking like a back up singer who tried too hard.

She should take a lesson from Deborah Cox--> another backup singer turned dance/house artist success story.
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