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Drama, no.

Adventure, yes! If things are getting boring spice it up a bit rather than create drama! Go traveling, take up a new couples hobby...something. 
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Originally posted by Random Thoughts Random Thoughts wrote:

..not necessarily fighting, arguing, cheating, baby mama type drama. And I'm not asking if you consciously seek it out. But do you, on any level, enjoy some disputes or challenges or obstacles to overcome in a relationship. Can a relationship be too easygoing/boring?

What do you think about people who want a tad bit of drama in their relationships. Is it unhealthy? Is this why opposites attract?


Absolutely ... no.
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Coming out of a drama-filled relationship and riding into the calm now...nope don't miss it one bit or am I bored in my nice new calm environment relationship.....bickering and sh*t starting IMO is dysfunctional.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote indiecat Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Dec 24 2013 at 2:33pm
Sometimes you get addicted to drama if that's what you are used to. I find that I seem to carry drama in every relationship, not just bf and gf ones. Like right now, I'm visiting my dad and it seems like I'm full of drama with everything because that's what I had been used to before in a bf and gf relationship. I find myself upset over little things and never ok with just being calm and happy. Like there is always a problem to me. I don't like how I act, I'm working on it and also my pregnancy hormones might be increasing it. I can be such a bish for no reason at all other than to be one. it's just I'm used to dealing with tons of big issues, so now that it's calm here, I have to have issues. It's like I am always prepared to argue and fight, on guard a lot.
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Nope. That sh*t is DRAINING.
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HELL no! And those that do likely have Borderline Personality Disorders (BPD)
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2 people that have strong personalities are going to have the occasional argument. Thats a part of life. I would rather have that than a yes man who does whatever I say because he is scared of being assertive.
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No!!!! I like it as peaceful as possible
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Originally posted by MomeRath MomeRath wrote:

Nope. That sh*t is DRAINING.
this. even in smallest of amounts. 

differences in opinion is as far as i'm willing to go. 

i'd rather have travel, vacations, art galleries, etc for excitement. 


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Originally posted by Random Thoughts Random Thoughts wrote:

..not necessarily fighting, arguing, cheating, baby mama type drama. And I'm not asking if you consciously seek it out. But do you, on any level, enjoy some disputes or challenges or obstacles to overcome in a relationship. Can a relationship be too easygoing/boring?




Yes. As long as the disagreements (not disputes) aren't disrespectful or ugly. It's never gotten there.
We both have strong personalities, and I think at times we both like playing head games, so to speak.



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