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Originally posted by creole booty creole booty wrote:

Strippers are at work. Girls in the regular club r shopping. It's different.

I dont agree with this. Not every chick in the club is lookin for a man to take home. And I would imagine Some strippers low key shop for guys with fat pockets. Im sure no stripper wants to work the pole forever and getting into a wealthy (or at least a fool who is willing to part with his money for such services) man's pocket is a good way to do it.
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Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:


Originally posted by creole booty creole booty wrote:

Strippers are at work. Girls in the regular club r shopping. It's different.

I dont agree with this. Not every chick in the club is lookin for a man to take home. And I would imagine Some strippers low key shop for guys with fat pockets. Im sure no stripper wants to work the pole forever and getting into a wealthy (or at least a fool who is willing to part with his money for such services) man's pocket is a good way to do it.


Never all. However, I'll say in my experience, strippers don't work the pole for free. Girls in regular party clubs do lol.
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Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Its not a question of "let" its more so would my SO dance would another woman... probably not unless its a relative of his...


This...

My SO and I have the same philosophy. We don't dance with randoms. I don't dance with random guys - only people in my group. Likewise, he doesn't dance with random chicks or pay attention to random girls.

IMO, dancing with someone random can be a door to drama. Or at least that's what I've always experienced. Some guys have a hard time understanding that a dance is just a dance - not an invitation to more. And some women don't understand that either, or would think that dancing with "your man" = them "one upping" you.

It's a sh!t show.
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lolz at all the people scoffing at the word "let"

yall mofos know what was meant.

No I would not let my man dance with other women if I were there and if he goes out by himself and dances with some, I wont let him come home and tell me the story. He better keep that ish on lock and key cause it will only result in bitterness if I find out and have all the feels about it.

Just being real.
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Originally posted by Quiann00 Quiann00 wrote:


Originally posted by Ladycoils Ladycoils wrote:



He can't do anything he isn't cool with me doing.

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He can dance with whomever...but he needs to keep in mind that whatever ratchetness he engage in, I'll match or even exceed...and he'll be mad.  
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I never felt any kind of way about it especially if we're out together or just socializing. I've never been given a reason to feel objection to him dancing with other women at the club or at parties. 

I'm not insecure about him, we're past that point.



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Originally posted by f8dagrate f8dagrate wrote:

Originally posted by loveandpeace1984 loveandpeace1984 wrote:

I wouldn't be dancing with other girls unless it's a two step or a really formal dance. No grinding or none of that.


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Went to the club and saw this girl with her parents there....mom was dancing on the floor and the dad was on the sideline holding their purses. LOL
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Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Man yall just look past the wording .
No i cant make him or let him do anything but he would hear it from me that night maybe probably Depends on my mood. Everything depends on my mood.


Would you mind if he got a lap dance from a stripper while youre there?

Just asking cause strippers seem more acceptable to me LOL.. like theyre not real people


LOL I see you already answered this!! nvm


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