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Originally posted by Printer_Ink Printer_Ink wrote:

No. Do not give MEN compliments, do not hit on guys/make the first move on a guy. What for? Because he's dark skinned so you think he does not get enough play? Wrong. He does not deserve your pity. Let the man hold his own.

Men are supposed to give YOU compliments.Period.

Again, Black men are just like every other man (has nothing to do with the tone of his skin!)

If after that pass you make on him, that guy asks for your number ... he will only have sex with you and then dump you because why? The answer is .. you rolled over on your back , with your legs in the air and exposed your soft underbelly ... by basically telling him you already like him so ... game over. What's he got to do now? You took his job away from you - you were too easy.

He did not have to chase you and wonder and worry until he got you .. so he will USE you if he can and move on to a more challenging subject.

If you see a guy you find attractive .. try to ensure that HE SEES YOU and then let him be the man and approach you and give YOU a compliment! If he cannot do this - he is not interested in you.

If he does ... stay cool. Don't be so eagar to show you like him ... because if you want something real with him, it will always come to a bad end.


Exhales, Just because you say "Nice Tie" to a man does not mean you want to ride him, have his babies and become his wife. DamnConfusedConfusedConfused


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Originally posted by petiteone29 petiteone29 wrote:

Confused

How did..........................nvmnd

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Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

Originally posted by petiteone29 petiteone29 wrote:

Confused

How did..........................nvmnd


Just look at the sourceCryCryCryCry




I really thought I missed something so I went back a page

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Knowing your place is very important in the circle of life. You have to stay in your place and demurely wait for him to come up to you. Of course  you don't want to seem easy by even making eye contact, that is a sign that you will have sex on the first date and he will never respect you. I am over here saying " Thank you Jesus" we getting to vote.

Never say anything to a strange black man, not even do you know what time it is? that is codespeak for I do anal.




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Originally posted by petiteone29 petiteone29 wrote:

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How did..........................nvmnd


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Originally posted by Printer_Ink Printer_Ink wrote:

No. Do not give MEN compliments, do not hit on guys/make the first move on a guy. What for? Because he's dark skinned so you think he does not get enough play? Wrong. He does not deserve your pity. Let the man hold his own.

Men are supposed to give YOU compliments.Period.

Again, Black men are just like every other man (has nothing to do with the tone of his skin!)

If after that pass you make on him, that guy asks for your number ... he will only have sex with you and then dump you because why? The answer is .. you rolled over on your back , with your legs in the air and exposed your soft underbelly ... by basically telling him you already like him so ... game over. What's he got to do now? You took his job away from you - you were too easy.

He did not have to chase you and wonder and worry until he got you .. so he will USE you if he can and move on to a more challenging subject.

If you see a guy you find attractive .. try to ensure that HE SEES YOU and then let him be the man and approach you and give YOU a compliment! If he cannot do this - he is not interested in you.

If he does ... stay cool. Don't be so eagar to show you like him ... because if you want something real with him, it will always come to a bad end.


This reminds me of this LOL


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It's sad that I get that joke.
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I compliment men. I compliment women. I compliment strangers. I compliment friends. I compliment Black people. I compliment White people. You never know if your compliment will make that person's day. I see no harm in it.
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why is this thread so long?

Anywho to answer the OP,

I don't compliment men who are strangers.
I do however compliment men I know of or am familiar with.


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