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Originally posted by SeducTress SeducTress wrote:

Sure have. I throw em off because I'll chuck a compliment and high tail it away. I don't want you boo. Just feeling myself when I do it.

But I compliment women too! I've definitely encountered my share of side eyes. Lol. But the women that can take a compliment make it all worthwhile.

Is it me, or have you been MIA? 

I leave the scene too, I don't want any more broken heartsLOL
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If I go out today I am going to find a man to compliment and see how it goes.LOL
A lil experiment.Wink
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Originally posted by petiteone29 petiteone29 wrote:

If I go out today I am going to find a man to compliment and see how it goes.LOL
A lil experiment.Wink

Gurl watch out though, I don't want to hear no horror storiesLOL


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lol men are crazy. I said aloud.. I like his has, NOT to him and he rolled his eyes. Like he was tired of hearing it. Oh no

Lol.. I went to one of those waffle cone trucks with a friend. Two ladies were there and she had a very pretty eye shadow. I said, I like the color of your shadow.. this btch nodded. As my friend ordered I said something not nice bout her unblended shadow and weave. that's so rude. How can you not say thank you??
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Originally posted by f8dagrate f8dagrate wrote:

Originally posted by petiteone29 petiteone29 wrote:

If I go out today I am going to find a man to compliment and see how it goes.LOL
A lil experiment.Wink

Gurl watch out though, I don't want to hear no horror storiesLOL


LOLLOL. I know right! Maybe I'll just give the compliment in my head. 
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Originally posted by Ming Ming wrote:

lol men are crazy. I said aloud.. I like his has, NOT to him and he rolled his eyes. Like he was tired of hearing it. Oh no

Lol.. I went to one of those waffle cone trucks with a friend. Two ladies were there and she had a very pretty eye shadow. I said, I like the color of your shadow.. this btch nodded. As my friend ordered I said something not nice bout her unblended shadow and weave. that's so rude. How can you not say thank you??

Rofllll LOL  I was eating out and I seen this pretty black women with a low hair cut. I said you look nice or something like that. She said " Thang you" and rolled her eyes. I was like word! Really, and my friend said "see that's why I don't compliment people, see". I was like whatever, I still do thoughLOL
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all the time...Embarrassed
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Originally posted by petiteone29 petiteone29 wrote:

Originally posted by creole booty creole booty wrote:

I think all people in general sometimes take compliments for more than they r. The same goes for criticisms.


Yeah when I was younger I thought a man just opening up his mouth to say anything meant he was trying to holla. But as I matured I realized that sometimes they just want to give a sistah a genuine compliment and kim. 

Now that I think about it I did compliment a guy on his hair. He had neat dreads that were like twisted up into this cool style. He smiled and said thank you and I went about my business.



So many unripened social banana's on BHM, they just can't understand the concept. Folks love to get compliments but hate to give them!  Personally I compliment women all the time with no expectations, and as I became more mature and confident with myself, I compliment men too.

I specifically remember being at an event, seeing a fine young sista rocking some louboutin boots with a very nice outfit. You could tell she took pride in the way she dressed. I told her I liked her boots and the way she wore them, and the smile on her face was beaming from ear to ear. I didn't want sh*t, just genuinely wanted to tell her I noticed her style.
Being with a woman who took her appearance serious taught me how much ladies put into their appearance and I can appreciate that.
If I see a cat with a razor sharp fade, I'll compliment him and ask what barbershop he goes to. Sometimes, in order to grow, one must step outside of their comfort zones. 9 times out of 10, you'll be glad you did. ;=)
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My cousin is very arrogant and believes that every man wants her. So we saw this really cute cop one day. He was chocolate with neat tucked away dreads and built quite nicely like a model. So she was telling me how she has never been rejected by any man and I guess she wanted to prove it. So she goes over there batting them lashes, switching hard and doing the whole flirty thing and dude just sitting there stone faced as hell. I mean he barely opened his mouth to mumble. So then she comes back irritated and was like " That nicca gay because ain't no way in the world he wouldn't want me if he was straight!" I just laughed and nodded. 
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@ming and f8- dang some people are so rude!! I think sometimes women think that another woman is being nicety. Giving an underhanded compliment. 
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