Do you Ladies pay Black men compliments?

If I go out today I am going to find a man to compliment and see how it goes.

lol men are crazy. I said aloud.. I like his has, NOT to him and he rolled his eyes. Like he was tired of hearing it. Oh no

Lol.. I went to one of those waffle cone trucks with a friend. Two ladies were there and she had a very pretty eye shadow. I said, I like the color of your shadow.. this btch nodded. As my friend ordered I said something not nice bout her unblended shadow and weave. that's so rude. How can you not say thank you??

Ming wrote: lol men are crazy. I said aloud.. I like his has, NOT to him and he rolled his eyes. Like he was tired of hearing it. Oh no Lol.. I went to one of those waffle cone trucks with a friend. Two ladies were there and she had a very pretty eye shadow. I said, I like the color of your shadow.. this btch nodded. As my friend ordered I said something not nice bout her unblended shadow and weave. that's so rude. How can you not say thank you??

petiteone29 wrote: creole booty wrote: I think all people in general sometimes take compliments for more than they r. The same goes for criticisms. Yeah when I was younger I thought a man just opening up his mouth to say anything meant he was trying to holla. But as I matured I realized that sometimes they just want to give a sistah a genuine compliment and kim.  Now that I think about it I did compliment a guy on his hair. He had neat dreads that were like twisted up into this cool style. He smiled and said thank you and I went about my business.

So many unripened social banana's on BHM, they just can't understand the concept. Folks love to get compliments but hate to give them!  Personally I compliment women all the time with no expectations, and as I became more mature and confident with myself, I compliment men too.

I specifically remember being at an event, seeing a fine young sista rocking some louboutin boots with a very nice outfit. You could tell she took pride in the way she dressed. I told her I liked her boots and the way she wore them, and the smile on her face was beaming from ear to ear. I didn't want sh*t, just genuinely wanted to tell her I noticed her style.
Being with a woman who took her appearance serious taught me how much ladies put into their appearance and I can appreciate that.
If I see a cat with a razor sharp fade, I'll compliment him and ask what barbershop he goes to. Sometimes, in order to grow, one must step outside of their comfort zones. 9 times out of 10, you'll be glad you did. ;=)

@ming and f8- dang some people are so rude!! I think sometimes women think that another woman is being nicety. Giving an underhanded compliment.